Hey, I'm Jared...and I believe in love.

I'm a nice guy and a romantic looking for his soulmate!

If you're into the Myers Briggs's MBTI, I'm an INFJ (introverted, intuitive, feeling, judging) with a very interesting weave of F and T on the MBTI II.

I have a vivid imagination to be creative and strong intuition that gives me insights into others' feelings, thoughts, struggles, motivations, and needs.

I eat a low fat diet and I'm a pescetarian (like a vegetarian but we eat seafood).

I exercise 5 days a week to stay as healthy as I can, I've been a "weight controller" for 13 years. My favorite exercise activites include swimming and jogging.

I have ethnic/cultural backgrounds that include English, Scottish, Welsh, and Jewish heritages; but, I'm an American born and raised.

I have a preferred bedroom position of bottom, bottom/versatile, or versatile; versatility depends on the personality of my guy. I'm content being any of the three mentioned...no really.

I have black hair and brown-green eyes. I also have a hairy frontside and a smooth backside. :)

Lastly I have an "ideal" type of guy, but certainly not absolutes to include: blonde or red hair, my height or taller, my age or older, moderate to hairy, pale skin, nice, down to earth, mature, open, honest, understanding, motivated, educated, loving, monogamous, and well hung *smile*, no really. However, you do not have to be all of these things; a psychic once told me to stop being so picky, and that my future husband would be 80% of what I want with the rest being what I didn't know I needed.

I work at a community college, employed as a faculty member. My day at work is spent coordinating a college-wide service, counseling, and instructing courses.

I am working on an Ed.D. which is a doctorate of education and my specialization is psychoeducational weight management (self-designed).

I am enjoying my own personal self-development while learning about the world and how I can contribute to it.

I am looking for new friends who will develop into close friends and best friends.

Ultimately, I am looking for a soulmate to marry and call my husband to live happily ever after...no really.

Loving, creating, listening, cooking, counseling, jogging, swimming, bowling, medieval fantasy pc games, psychology, making low-fat meals, organizing, preparing, cuddling, buttplay *smile*, solving problems, devotion, monogamy, making things better, critiquing, and anything else you need...

My dark hair.
My glasses.
My love for the colors black and white.
My intuition skills.
My introversion.
My package. (you know, the whole me...)
My sense of humor. (see above)

Music: Sarah Brightman, Josh Groban, Lorenna Mckennit, Darren Hayes, Enya, Evanescence, Within Temptation, Casey Stratton, Dead Can Dance, Real Mccoy, Ace of Base, Blaqk Audio, Lady GaGa, Orgy, Pink, Madonna, Balan, Arsenium, Mariah Carey, Jade Redd, Eiffel 65, Ben Jelen, Celine Dion, Shiny Toy Guns, Milla Jovovich, BT, Sarah McLachlan, Ozone, Sacha Sacket, Adiemus, Linkin Park, Backstreet Boys, Aqua, Sasha Lazard, Rupaul, Avril Lavigne, Tarkan, Nightwish, Lindsey Stirling, Apocalyptica, ABBA, Clay Aiken, Imogen Heap, Thousand Foot Krutch, Mans Zelmerlow, Lisa Gerrard, Corvus Corax, Cyndi Lauper, Brian Tyler, Trevor Jones, Little Boots, Adam Tyler, and etc.

Movies: The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Clue, Children of Dune, Dune, Merlin, What Dreams May Come, Nightmare on Elm Street, Halloween, Twilight, Friday the 13th, The Chronicles of Narnia, Dungeons and Dragons I & II, The Silence of the Lambs, The Invisible, NightWatch, Tristan and Isolde, Kinsey, Hello Dolly, The Phantom of the Opera, Aladdin, Eragon, Another Gay Movie, Shortbus, Into the Woods, Mists of Avalon, Trick, Latter Days, Hackers, The Joy Luck Club, Queen of the Damned, Harry Potter, Dead Silence, The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, Interview with a Vampire, X-Men I-II-III, Identity, Goonies, Star Treks, Clash of the Titans, Robin Hood, Steel Magnolias, Ever After, Shrek, Saw, Hocus Pocus, Teen Witch, The Notebook, The Crucible, Death Becomes Her, The Mummy 1 and 2, Stay Alive, Silent Hill, Lady In The Water, Alegria, Adam & Steve, Green Latern, ...

TV Shows: Star Trek: TNG and Voyager, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Supernatural, True Blood, Sex and the City, Battlestar Galactica, A Game of Thrones, Haven, Sanctuary, The Walking Dead, Rupaul's Drag Race, Project Runway, Charmed, Golden Girls, Roseanne, Alias, Oprah, Intervention, Oz, Stargate SG-1, Legend of the Seeker, The Fades, Merlin, American Idol, American Horror Story, Nip/Tuck, Glee, and any home improvement, cooking, or documentary show.

Activities: Swimming, Bowling, Jogging/Running, Computers, Psychology, Counseling, Camping, Magic: The Gathering, Dungeons & Dragons, PC Games, Dinning Out, Clubs, Coffee, Movies, and Visiting New Places...

Food: Fettucini Alfredo, Lobster, Squid, Octopus, Scallops, Shrimp, Mushrooms, Fruit Snacks, Milkshakes, Cheese Balls, Pizza, and etc. Low Fat recipes! Mexican, Italian, Thai, and etc. Did I mention that I'm a pescetarian (a seafood vegetarian)

Books: The Lord of the Rings, A Game of Thrones, The Divine Comedy, The Joy Luck Club, The Crucible, Choice Theory, The Zen of Listening, Dune, Reality Therapy, The Scarlet Letter, going to start the Twilight series here soon... And trying to read the Newspaper more. Honestly, I'm not much of a reader for fun these days since I'm working on my doctorate and required to read a gazillion psychology textbooks.

1. My Family (Soulmate, Immediate Family, and Friends)
2. God
3. Exercise & Low Fat Diet
4. Medieval Fantasy Stuff
5. Phallic Thing in My Nightstand
6. My Glasses
*. Wishing for More Wishes

My next step for the future...

Why it is so f'ing hard to get a doctorate...

Where my soulmate is...

Hopefully going out on a date...

Meeting up with friends for an activity such as game night, movie night, bowling, dinner, walking around town, going to a bar, or something else that could be fun for everyone...

Sitting at the computer puzzeled why you didn't take the time to say hi and working out a plan to get your attention!

Most of my time is spent hanging out with the people I love most in the world or working towards one of my goals...

I'm 31, and an open book...

You think you might be my soulmate...but we can start with a date.

You think we might have potential for friendship. Especially if you are into Magic: The Gathering, Dungeons and Dragons, horror movies, medieval fantasy, swimming, jogging, health psychology, teaching, amusement parks, or just plain hanging out because we like each others' company and care about each other.

You have a huge wiener...no really!