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32 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:21pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Okay), French (Poorly), LISP (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a story teller and a mad engineer, and I'm told I'm a good person to talk to. I love exploring, adventures, and social gatherings with friends... as well as a nice quiet night in.

I'm polyamorous. I am completely uninterested in any closed relationship, nor am I willing to be anybody's dirty little secret.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working as a QA Automation Engineer and spending my spare time finding wacky things to do. Those adventures often include things like iron chef style cooking competitions, sea shanty sing alongs, and planning secret adventures for friends without telling them what's coming.

My creative projects have included choreographing a massive sword and staff fire dance inspired by the Maori Haka with influences from around Indonesia and East Asia (see here: ) and building a human sized hamster wheel powered carriage (needs a little work but is functional, see here: ).
I’m really good at
I build things, I break things (to be better rebuilt!). It's very balanced that way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get a lot of comments about the coat I usually wear, so I guess I'll have to go with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books) Blood Sucking Fiends, a Love Story; Asimov's Guide to Shakespeare; Asimov's Book of Facts; The Subtleties of the Immitable Mulla Nasrudin; Space Child's Mother Goose; The Dresden Files; The True Game; Starfish

Movies) The Scorpion King; Training Day; Finding Nemo; BBC's Hamlet; Kennith Branaugh's Henry V; Amelie; Love Actually; Mr. and Mrs. Smith;Shoot 'Em 'Up;Pacific Rim

Shows) Justified, Game of Thrones, Sparticus: Blood and Sand, Top Chef, West Wing

Music) Temple of Love (Sisters of Mercy); Song of Bernadette (Jennifer Warnes); Both Sides Now (Joni Mitchell); Kryptonite (Three Doors Down); Another Irish Drinking Song (Davinchi's Notebook); DotA; I am a Scientist (Dandy Worhols); Might Tell You Tonight (Scissor Sisters); Devil's Dance Floor (Flogging Molly); Kamate (Ora Mate), Clipped (Rasputina); Apres Moi (Regina Spektor); Warm and Dry (Pet Shop Boys)

Food) Chocolate; Ice Cream; Mochi; More Chocolate; Sauteed Mushrooms; Sushi; Chinese food; Burritos; Chicken Bacon Gouda Veggie Pie; Bacon Fried Potatoes; Dim Sum
The six things I could never do without
I never like questions like this. I'm too much of an engineer at heart to answer anything other than things I truly can't do without: Stimulus, Oxygen, Food, Water, Heat, and Shelter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Political Theory, Probability Analysis (yes, I can be geeky enough to do that when bored), Relationships, Daydream Stories, Fire Choreography, Structure Design, Art Constructions, Being a Superhero (hey, don't knock my dreams), Strange and Wonderful Contraptions. I've built up a long term zombie defense plan in my spare time, and really like planning out buildings and temporary structures. Lately I've been devising automation tools.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in my room on the computer, since I do plenty on Monday-Thursday nights, or off on some random adventure that we cook up at the last minute. Occasionally there's a dinner party or similar. Sometimes fire dancing in the street. You know, the usual stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Really not sure what to put here... it's not that private if I'm willing to throw it up on the internet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're the sort that likes the idea of the girl taking the first step!