I am passionate, odd, and oftentimes intense.
My Self-Summary
Okay, so it's late and I'm tired, so this will be rambling and
chaotic but here goes: I'm an
actor and a
singer who is currently working as a
restaurant host to make ends meet (lucky me). I'm also a
writer though recently
that's had to take a back burner to a lot of other things I like to
learn. Just ask me what you wanna know, I usually answer. I'm
pretty open about things (though I won't say I'm an "open book"
because I don't think anyone really is and those who say that they
are tend to want to prove something to someone else and are hiding
something deep down.) For fun I watch
movies and
TV, and I try to do some
reading as much as I can. I like to
hang out with my friends, go out or spend a quiet night in. I'll
fill in more random facts later, I'm sure.
That astrological sign thing to the right doesn't really give the
option of what I think about it. It's either between "fun to think
about" or "it matters a lot" and neither of those accurately
expresses my feelings on the subject. Now, it doesn't matter a LOT
to me, but it is something that I take into consideration when I'm
with someone. Very few people I've met have not matched at least a
few qualities of their astrological sign, so I take that into
consideration when dealing with people, as well as every other
aspect of their personality.
And, ps. I'm a huge fan of gay marriage. I would like it to be
legal everywhere, and I love the Brits even more (like that was
possible!) now that they've legalized it. This should give you an
indication of one of my goals in life. ;-)
A friend recently described me in a way I thought was very
accurate: "you seem to have that perfect balance of romanticism,
idealism, and realism
that makes you mature, but fun, trustworthy, but decidedly
innocent..... and completely misunderstood by 99% of the general
population"
What I’m doing with my life
Working and figuring life out.
Sidenote: I am looking for love. Honest to goodness LOVE. Don't
care what kind it is--friendship, familial, the love of a goooood
hot chocolate, romantic, passionate, what have you. Not faux love
where all you do is hurt someone but create an emotional dependency
on how they make you feel so you don't know what else to call it
but "love". That's not what I want. I've experienced it, and now
I'm done experiencing that. Done it several times, can't say it was
altogether horrible, but I'm looking for something else now. I have
known my entire life that I am here to experience is love in all
its forms and to love as much as I can. Anyone who knows me can
tell you that I experience love very deeply. So now that we got the
really intense stuff out of the way, let's move on to lighter
things. :-D
I’m really good at
All kinds of stuff. Why don't you find out? ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. Usually I'm not other people. But I'd guess my
teeth/smile. Maybe my hair?
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(b)Moulin Rouge, Seven, The Object of My Affection, Death Becomes
Her, Clue, Noises Off, Spanglish, The Talented Mr. Ripley, Kevin
Smith films, Big Fish, so many more that I just can't think of
right now. Just fyi--I LOATHE Napoleon Dynamite. It was the biggest
waste of an hour and forty minutes ever! And, yes, it was a bigger
waste than Unbreakable. At least in Unbreakable there was some nice
camerawork to distract from the horridness that was that movie. (I
did like Sixth Sense, Signs, and The Village, though.) (c)To name
but a small sample--
Alanis Morissette,
Tori Amos,
David Bowie,
Pet Shop
Boys,
Travis,
Jamie Cullum,
Robbie
Williams,
The Dresden Dolls,
Amanda Palmer,
Kate Nash,
Jason Mraz,
Lauren
Kennedy,
Scissor Sisters,
Broadway--Jason Robert
Brown, Stephen Sondheim, Stephen Flaherty, etc., and again, so many
more.
The six things I could never do without
Love, air, music, smiles (it really does brighten up your day), the
duality of the world/universe, and...um...peanut butter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Somebody hold me too close. Somebody hurt me too deep. Somebody sit
in my chair and ruin my sleep and make me aware of being alive.
Being alive. Somebody need me too much. Somebody know me too well.
Somebody pull me up short and put me through hell and give me
support for being alive. Make me alive. Make me alive... Make me
confused. Mock me with praise. Let me be used, Vary my days. But
alone is alone, not alive. Somebody crowd me with love. Somebody
force me to care. Somebody make me come through, I'll always be
there as frightened as you, to help us survive being alive. Being
alive. Being alive. ~~from Company, song by Stephen Sondheim
Do you realize? You have the most beautiful face.
Do you realize? We're floating in space.
Do you realize? That happiness makes you cry.
Do you realize? That everyone you know someday will die.
And instead of saying all of your goodbyes
Let them know you realize that life goes fast
It's hard to make the good things last
You realize the sun doesn't go down
It's just an illusion caused by the world spinning round.
--"Do You Realize?" by The Flaming Lips
On a typical Friday night I am
Up, out, working, lazing about, watching TV, roaming a bookstore,
talking to friends, wandering around, wishing, thinking, writing,
singing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I think this box is so humorous, mostly because of how many people
have put something like, "I won't tell you that!" or "You'll have
to find out!" or some other variation. It says, right there, the
most private thing you're "WILLING" to admit. If that only goes so
far as for you to say, "I love chewing gum!" then so be it. Not
asking for your dirtiest secrets, folks. It's a free dating site.
;-)
As for the most private thing I'm WILLING to admit HERE:
I sometimes get excited about things uncut. Movies, albums....other
things.....not that it's important or anything, but it's always a
nice bonus.
You should message me if
You're fun, willing to chat, you want to find out more, think we
can be friends, are a nice person. I like nice people a lot and am
always looking for more in my life. Assholes need not apply, and if
you do, I'll be rather upset with you. ;-)