Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I had a dream, and in my dream a women was wading in water up to
her waist. Her hair cascading down her back like tresses of silk.
But I could not see her face. The sun shone down on the water
making it shimmer like silver, as the morning fog obscured all
around her. She is whom i seek, the women in the water. She is a
vivacious soul, full of life and energy. It may sound like an
antiquated idealistic dream, but we must not stop dreaming, because
when we stop dreaming. Our lives become a monotonous day to day
passages of time.
I am an old soul in this modern mans body. I believe in loyalty,
monogamy, honor and trust, mixed in good measure with joy and
laughter and what you have is somthing wonderful.
What I seek is this..
If I were to envision myself as a character from a classical piece
of literature. I would see myself as A'rtagion seeking his Madame
Bonaczir (except for the part where Madame Bonaczir is
*As a side note to give some insight into my character, I recently
got a message from a rather attractive women that simply said " you
seem pretty cool, by the way I'm DTF"...I had to Google this
acronym to figure it out...and was rather surprised, a coworker I
was telling this little blurb said " Jay, if you had to Google
it...just think of it as a good thing"...needless to say, I believe
that means I've got integrity. And as your reading this your
going...." A man on OKC with integrity...say its not so"*
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring the world around me, whether it be across the street or
on the other side of the globe. Our world is a fascinating place
full of stories and legends craving to be written down for
posterity. Fortuneately, one does not always need a passport in
which to travel, one merely needs to have the creative spirit and
willingness to learn new things. Oh and Google helps too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Their are a lot of things I am good at, I'm really good at writing
short stories, if only i could finish them. Ive been known to write
a few lines of verse from time to time, whether it be good or bad,
I'll let you be the judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To be quite honest, I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The written word is not a lost art form, as some would have us
think. It has merely evolved, and in my humble opinion is quite
alive and thriving. That being said, there are so many good things
to read, but im partial to historical works and memoirs. People's
lives fascinate me, their thoughts, dreams, failings and
aspirations all culminate into a work of art formed in words.
Ive not been to a movie in some time, I think the last one i saw
was Walter Mitty.
Im rather picky when it comes to TV shows, as i dont watch a lot of
it. But I do enjoy Downton Abbey, Call the Midwife and Mr.
Selfridge on PBS.
I've recently discovered a program on BBC America that I can't get
enough of " The Musketeers"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone (neccessary evil of the modern world)
I'm not a budhist, but i do think we cling to 'things' a bit to
much, there is beauty in simplicity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can better myself, not only as a person, but as a man.
Why OKC seems to think i live in Ithaca, NY.
Why online dating, seems to be an epic game of 20 questions. Rather
than a conduit for the natural flow of conversation between two
Why most but not all of the interesting women that i've had
conversations with on OKC, are mostly either in Ithaca, or
What is the proper etiquette and protocol for online dating, as
thus far I've heard many stories of dudes kicking off conversations
with.."so when would you like to f__k." And realizing I'm not that
guy, I think I'm a pretty decent fella and dare I say it...a
I'm beginning to wonder if perhaps the "matches" that OKC seems to
be giving me are outdated inactive profiles, or if maybe there
might be something hanging from my virtual nose, or perhaps I'm
just a rather boring fellow..whatever the case may be, I'm content
with who I am, but would like to meet someone who is just as
content in who they are. Because as I have learned, you make your
own happiness, others just fill up the corners.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually spent at home reading one thing or another.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I suppose if you want to call it a "private thing", I loathe
secrets. I much prefer openess and honesty above all else.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Well, first off...you should messege me if you want to..seems
simple enough. In addition you should also messege me if you
believe your smile lights up a room, smiles are like rays of the
sun..they warm everyone around them, and also you enjoy just the
sillyness of banter between two people
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.