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39 • Vestal, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–43
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Trying to quit
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
I am an old soul in this modern mans body. I believe in loyalty, monogamy, honor and trust, mixed in good measure with joy and laughter and what you have is somthing wonderful.
What I seek is this..
If I were to envision myself as a character from a classical piece of literature. I would see myself as A'rtagion seeking his Madame Bonaczir (except for the part where Madame Bonaczir is married)
*As a side note to give some insight into my character, I recently got a message from a rather attractive women that simply said " you seem pretty cool, by the way I'm DTF"...I had to Google this acronym to figure it out...and was rather surprised, a coworker I was telling this little blurb said " Jay, if you had to Google it...just think of it as a good thing"...needless to say, I believe that means I've got integrity. And as your reading this your going...." A man on OKC with integrity...say its not so"*
Ive not been to a movie in some time, I think the last one i saw was Walter Mitty.
Im rather picky when it comes to TV shows, as i dont watch a lot of it. But I do enjoy Downton Abbey, Call the Midwife and Mr. Selfridge on PBS.
I've recently discovered a program on BBC America that I can't get enough of " The Musketeers"
Cell Phone (neccessary evil of the modern world)
I'm not a budhist, but i do think we cling to 'things' a bit to much, there is beauty in simplicity.
Why OKC seems to think i live in Ithaca, NY.
Why online dating, seems to be an epic game of 20 questions. Rather than a conduit for the natural flow of conversation between two people.
Why most but not all of the interesting women that i've had conversations with on OKC, are mostly either in Ithaca, or Scranton.
What is the proper etiquette and protocol for online dating, as thus far I've heard many stories of dudes kicking off conversations with.."so when would you like to f__k." And realizing I'm not that guy, I think I'm a pretty decent fella and dare I say it...a gentlemen.
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