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39 Vestal, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:55pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I am an old soul in this modern mans body. I believe in loyalty, monogamy, honor and trust, mixed in good measure with joy and laughter and what you have is somthing wonderful.

More to come on this, stay tuned...

I suppose you could say that i am a bit intraverted, but speak my mind sans filter when the situation dictates, and sometimes when it doesnt dictate.

What I seek is this..
If I were to envision myself as a character from a classical piece of literature. I would see myself as A'rtagion seeking his Madame Bonaczir (except for the part where Madame Bonaczir is married)

I'm a morning person I suppose, on my weekends with my sons, we have this routine. I pick them up, and we go for breakfast at a diner, thus far, I think their favorite spot so far has been the Park Diner. They really dig the overlook at the river, gotta love those moments.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring the world around me, whether it be across the street or on the other side of the globe. Our world is a fascinating place full of stories and legends craving to be written down for posterity. Fortuneately, one does not always need a passport in which to travel, one merely needs to have the creative spirit and willingness to learn new things. Oh and Google helps too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Their are a lot of things I am good at, I'm really good at writing short stories, if only i could finish them. Ive been known to write a few lines of verse from time to time, whether it be good or bad, I'll let you be the judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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To be quite honest, I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The written word is not a lost art form, as some would have us think. It has merely evolved, and in my humble opinion is quite alive and thriving. That being said, there are so many good things to read, but im partial to historical works and memoirs. People's lives fascinate me, their thoughts, dreams, failings and aspirations all culminate into a work of art formed in words.

Ive not been to a movie in some time, I think the last one i saw was Walter Mitty.
Im rather picky when it comes to TV shows, as i dont watch a lot of it. But I do enjoy Downton Abbey, Call the Midwife and Mr. Selfridge on PBS.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone (neccessary evil of the modern world)

I'm not a budhist, but i do think we cling to 'things' a bit to much, there is beauty in simplicity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can better myself, not only as a person, but as a man.

Why OKC seems to think i live in Ithaca, NY.

Why online dating, seems to be an epic game of 20 questions. Rather than a conduit for the natural flow of conversation between two people.

Why most but not all of the interesting women that i've had conversations with on OKC, are mostly either in Ithaca, or Scranton.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually spent at home reading one thing or another.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I suppose if you want to call it a "private thing", I loathe secrets. I much prefer openess and honesty above all else.
You should message me if
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If you want to. Its also a bonus if you know what Pyrohi is.