Other than memories (many amazing, what a life so far!), I don't often like talking this much about myself - but, that's what this part is for, right? :P Jatropheus is me everywhere, wherever you see the name, that should be me (except Germany, no clue who that is).
I'm bisexual/pansexual (but not stereotypically
horn-doggish) & in a polyamorous (open, honest, but not
to be mistaken for easy, sleazy or slutty - not that there's
anything wrong with that, it's just not me) marriage. Sorry this
part is such a downer, comes with the territory, once these things
have been introduced. First, I will NOT cheat with or on anyone.
Someone else and my Wife do not have to meet or talk or anything
(can if you want confirmation from her that she knows), but I will
not hide anything or lie to anyone.
"Bi-tolerant" guys: don't bother, we really aren't
desperate, and the offer to allow me to pleasure you is not at all
tempting.
We also have kids, and don't hide anything from them, but also
don't expose them to people until trusted.
I'm a musician (Bass, Vocals & Writing), an artist, writer,
poet, martial artist, realist, philosopher... and surprisingly
silly and geekish in interests, all else considered.
I'm not as egotistical as all this, but how else to describe
myself? I'm intelligent, creative,
compassionate, passionate, self and real world educated,
considerate, honest, honorable, friendly, attentive, open minded, helpful,
sympathetic, empathetic, emphatic, talented, patient, funny (but
looks aren't everything), protective, lithe, sensual, thoughtful,
understanding, insatiable, good company, sharp, sweet, warm,
casual, well mannered and cultured yet unrefined, down to earth and
realistic. I've been described as "rugged", "masculinely pretty",
"graceful" and "the Devil" among other things.
Oh, and did I mention modest? (Actually am, would never tell you
any of this in person, I'd show you as it comes up.)
Also, quit smoking relatively recently (past the first months, think that's done). Have no problem with others smoking around me, and am over the crankiness & all, but, didn't go back through all of the questions here yet...
I'll usually talk to just about anyone who's reasonable. I find it's easiest to view social interactions as give what you get and then some.
I dispute some of the personality traits here... particularly "more aggressive" (well, have faced off with gangs when needed, but that was defensive or derailing problems, not aggression) and "less kind." Seriously, I do a lot for other people (without concern for compensation), and more often than not put others' feelings & needs first. Maybe it's those incompatibilities between loopholes in wording and the way I see things, or expected answers and my level of self-awareness, or zombie survival quizzes... I know that good people do good things for the basic selfish reason of how it makes them feel. Sometimes, I do, too, but, often just because it's the right thing to do and my feelings & self preservation instincts have no bearing on that.
Eclectic and about out of space... find out for yourself.
