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30 • M • La Mesa, CA
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 5:29pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Judaism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
The secret to my happiness: Dentistry. Strange? Yes. Frightening? Yes. Oh so cool? Yes. And an artistic field? Indeed.
Besides that goal, I absolutely love antiquity, intricacy, orange iron, green copper, white zinc, history, food, books, museums, parks, trees, bushes, sprouts, seeds, axillary buds, rhizomes, roots, gravitropism, Rhizobia, nitrogen fixation,... Hmm. Yes! Life is lovely.
The mundane aspects of life that hold so much exquisite detail, are the parts I find most compelling.
I am a very open minded and hobby obsessed person. I fancy having shelves full of notebooks detailing the trials and recipes for what I have done. So far, I have filled it with blank notebooks.
Every year I make gifts for my friends for the holiday season. It started four years ago with ginger infused vodka, followed by vanilla extract, and then I stumbled upon the secret success: mead. I make it every year, and I am surprised by its mysterious deliciousness.
Claiming any sort of mastery, or even a sense of understanding is not within my ability; furthermore, finding fortune from failing fuels my fun. As well as alliteration.
I am pretty good at following a baking recipe. During my childhood, there was not anyone who would bake when I wanted baked goods. To remedy such horribleness, I learned how to create pastries and baked goods.
Tagging along with my honey ferments is an exploration in a vast array of fermented foods. I am quite the prolific Kefir grains cultivator, sauerkraut mixer, and kombucha mushroom caretaker.
I bought a living bottle of Kombucha from Edible Alchemy, and grew a SCOBY. They are called mothers, and look like a thick gelatin disc. I love it, for I am not bound by expensive commercial bottles that dictate what flavors I must enjoy.
I have since branched to another ferment: Sriracha! It is a short fermentation involving brown sugar and chilies.
I enjoy wonderful snarky comments, and a playfully surreal banter.
The swirling madness topping my head.
My most favorite of films involve pretty lights, pretty people, and desiccated humor. I like other stuff too!!
John Hughes films, The Big Lebowski, Raising Arizona, Rushmore, Willow, I Heart Huckabees, Interview with the Vampire, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Hot Fuzz, Tale of a Vampire, The Hunger, Real Genius, Best in Show, Garden State, Princess Mononoke, What About Bob, Wristcutters.
I quite enjoy TV, but I like to limit my viewing to a few shows. I get frustrated with the bombardment of commercials.
TV: House MD, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The Cooking Channel, The BBC channel, Two Fat Ladies.
Books: Philip K. Dick, Alfred Bester, Harry Potter, The Alchemist, Kindred, Immigrant Women in the Land of Dollars, The Left Hand of Darkness, On Death and Dying, Wild Fermentation.
My favorite novel is The Stars My Destination.
I quite enjoy all manner of gaze, goth, and gypsy music. What a broad statement! Let me remedy that by listing a number of my most admired artists.
Joy Divsion, Beck, DeVotchKa, Smashing Pumpkins, Jesus and the Mary Chain, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Associates, Air, Little Dragon, Tom Waits, Leonard Cohen, The Postmarks, The Cramps, The Cult, The Misfits, David Bowie, Christian Death, Modest Mouth, 16 Horsepower, Massive Attack, Portishead, Coldplay, The Rabbinical School Dropouts, Nick Drake, Nico, Lene Lovich...
Atrociously alliterated answers
My delicious grey matter
My magnificent white matter
My delightful nervous system
My marvelously minuscule muscles
Shade and shadows
That said, I am not into polyamory. No, the feature of my fascination is always singular in nature; as in, I am a one person person!
Your words escape and form a menagerie of sincere and symbolically smart silliness.
You enjoy relationships of joy and romance, and seek to explore the stars through maps, boats, and telescopes, and/or know the best places to cultivate white sage.
I lack experience at toppling windmills, but my newest plan requires the combined might of a pair.
I do not want you to guess my thoughts, so I practice straightforward communication. I am always open to and appreciate any and all questions, thoughts, and Oxford commas.
And do not forget a mere salutations!
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