Firstly - There are time's where I could be the nicest guy you ever meet - and then there are times where I am just the most blunt - harsh person ever. But that's who I am.
A lot of people come to me for help - and when I help them I don't tell them what they expect to hear- I tell them what they NEED.
The thing that bothers me enormously about sites like this is that there are a lot of guys on here - and majority of them are assholes.
Yes - I can be perceived that way - but at the end of the day - i'm still a hopeless romantic with morals, and gentlemanly conduct.
I still hold doors for women.
I still drive to pick up a girlfriend (when I have one)
I still talk with proper grammar.
I do things not many guys can say they've done.... (Like go out of the country.. and still try to impress a girl.. If you wanna know that story ask)
My hobbies have changed over the years. When I was in high school a couple of years ago i wouldn't go out much. As I got older - I started developing a much more outgoing friendship with my best friend (lets just call him "J" for now). One of the hobbies that has changed is the fact that I started smoking a couple of years ago.
No nothing bad.
I started smoking Hookah two years ago. Over the years, my collection of hookahs has grown quite extensively. On a typical night now a days - I either smoke with friends - or sometimes smoke alone.
It's quite hard for me to meet new people - let alone find someone to have in a relationship because when i was younger i was bullied - so it hurt my self esteem a bit. However as time went on - i've become more open to trying to make new friendships with people and see where they develop.
Many people probably get my messages and just delete them because they're not "interesting" or you see them as "boring". In reality, you'd classify it as "how every typical message from a guy is" But the only reason why I still message women with "Hello! how are you" or "Good afternoon" or something like "i hope to have the pleasure of talking to you" is because i believe that good manners are slowly dwindling away. With the respect, and morals my father has brought me up with - i don't find that acceptable at all.
For those that haven't figured it out by now. My name is Jason. I'm 21 years old. I'm single, straight, but don't mind anyone who is anything else. I'm a very serious person because of the life experiences i have been through. I am gentlemanly (at least i'd like to think so). When I am mad - sometimes I don't have a filter on what I say. I do say sweet things. I am a nice person once we get passed the awkward "meeting stage" and it would be my pleasure to talk to a lot of you on this site.
Thank you for reading this if you did!