Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


26 F Lexington, KY

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:40am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Swahili (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Fact number 1: I don't have internet at my house; I only get online during the weekends when I visit the library. Please don't be butthurt if I don't respond to a message right away.

Now then, let's see... a bit about me.
I have my SCUBA license, I've skydived, I've hiked in the Californian redwoods, I grew up in southern Tanzania, I don't get hangovers, I'm O+, I get sick from vitamins, my eyes change color, I prefer soda room temperature, I'm an atheist from an evangelical family, and I like to think of myself as a frood who knows where my towel is.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I move a lot. I've lived several different places abroad and several different places in the States.
Right now I'm brand spanking new to Lexington (though not KY). I teach ESL to immigrants via BCTC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching ESL, singing, being jolly while sleep deprived, laughing at not-funny-at-all jokes and moderating debates.
I'm getting better at ignoring trolls, keeping my opinions to myself and growing house plants.
I'm not good at containing utter glee when presented with kittens or puppies.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm probably overdressed. Unless, of course, I'm somewhere fancy- then I'm probably too casual.
Go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love dystopian literature. Orwell, Huxley, Bradbury; love 'em all. I also enjoy reading Hawking, because it's sheer brilliance in layman's terms. - Anyone who doesn't enjoy Vonnegut isn't worth my time.

I'm a sucker for musicals and Disney films. And, yes, I'll admit it, I love a good zombie flick. If you didn't like Puss In Boots you can go to hell. I'll probably make at least one Mel Brooks reference a day. I pretty much enjoy anything Wes Anderson, Hayao Miyazaki or Guy Ritchie direct.

I don't have a TV and don't want one. I prefer to read or write. Though I will say, I love Attenborough documentaries.

I'm a hair-band groupie and love the Indi-folk scene. But fo realz, I like just about anything except screamo and gangster rap.

I fucking love food. My only hesitation is water-based foods (fish, crabs, seaweeds) and stupid-hot spicy. I've eaten pig feet and roasted rat: I'm willing to try things.

My role models include Sagan, deGrasse-Tyson, Curie, Cox, Nye, Feynman, Hawking, Dawkins and anyone else in the League of Scientists. And yes, Sagan is still the president of the League, even post-death: he's that phenomenal. (I really enjoyed NdGT's spin on Cosmos!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A companion/friend I can ramble to/with.
Something in my hands to keep my fingers occupied.
Being informed / in the loop.
Freedom to come and go as I please.
Enough time to explain myself, since I like to be detailed and articulate.
Something new to learn, especially regarding culture or science.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Evolution, both micro and macro. Civil rights: including women's, reproductive, LGBTQ and immigrant. Sex and its effect on brain function. (Though, usually it's just the sex part.) Self sustainable homeless shelters and homeless education projects. Mental illness and its role in human evolution. Political self-interest and how short-sighted it it. Feminism: gender normalties, stereotypes, bias and the like. Budgets. What "fair" actually means.

I like to think and spend a lot of time doing so.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like going to pubs or karaoke bars, but I wouldn't call that a "typical" Friday event. I enjoy staying in reading, or going out for a late coffee. Or just straight up crashing from an exhausting week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am Spartacus
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a feminist who loves LGBTQs. Or a scientist who loves discussing hypothetical shit. Or a drinker who doesn't like sports bars unless they're playing fútball. Or a nice person who isn't rude to beggars. Or an anthropologist who doesn't believe in stereotypes. Or a world traveler looking to sit on the grass and tell sad stories of the death of kings.