The mind is the greatest power an individual can muster. Do not waste yours or let others discount it's capability. This is not to say that the packaging of the person is not also a great gift and a marvel of nature. Regardless of size, shape, or whatever.
A Fantasy: I'd really like to encounter a married couple that wanted a friend that would accept them both as individuals and as a pair. A couple that would love to have someone sit back and watch them and appreciate the intimacy of their gift.