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Jay_Jay88

31 El Cerrito, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:54pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a driven and ambitious guy. I like the outdoors (hiking, jogging, snowboarding), wine tasting, watching football games, learning new things, and spending time with friends and family; I enjoy going out to a bar for drinks and dancing just as much as I enjoy staying in for movie night. I studied Psychology and Spanish Literatures in undergrad. In grad school, I did an MBA and a Master's in Education.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in finance and operations in the non-profit sector.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...jogging, procrastinating, math, Excel, presentations, board games, wasting time on NetFlix.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I resemble Pauly D; my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
Lazarillo de Tormes (Alberto Blecua)
La celestina (Fernando de Rojas)
Savage Inequalities (Jonathan Kozol)
Blink (Malcolm Gladwell)
Once minutos (Paulo Coelho)

Movies: Comedies/Thrillers.

Music: Top 40s, R&B, Spanish music (rock en espanol, merengue, salsa, banda)

Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai, Salvadoran
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family/friends
2. Coffee
3. Good food
4. Exercise/crossfit/jogging
5. Passion for my job
6. Chocolate chip cookies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... ways to improve our public school system... what my next meal will be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...feeling extremely tired from the work week, hanging out with friends, watching NetFlix, dining out, exercising.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a weakness for guys that use their careers to have a positive impact on society (e.g., teachers) or who are good at things I am horrible at (e.g., art, sciences).
You should message me if
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... you are interested in getting to know me. Looking to date and take it from there.