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37 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Dec 15, 2014
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Trying to quit
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Living in New York since 2008. I'm wacky grounded smart well read sharp eared cardio addict art/noize rock lover love to dance Kettle One Vodka or "J" Whisky drinker. Dyptique or Bond no. 9 sniffer. Former Austinite who still holds on to Austin-y things w a hint of nostalgia.
New York Magazine's weekly Approval Matrix, Cultural capital, Gabrielle Roth, Surface to Air, Seven New York, New York city in the 20s,70s and 80s. Love Cindy Sherman. Love to travel. Been a beach bum this summer (2014). Love Paris. Antwerp.
Love San Juan, PR. San Francisco. Lana del Rey holds a certain mystique to me. Breaking Bad. Homeland. Scandal. John Waters.
What I’m doing with my life
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Escaped from Austin,TX in 2008 ..currently Living in the Far East Side of Midtown Mhttn. By day, I work hard as a benefits administrator for a large creative union. Trying to decide what I want to do my Master's in. Still Exploring the mecca of NYC and basking in her gentle nuances. Never confined to one borough I love to explore the entire city.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
mix and matching. scheduling. grammar and punctuation (not on here clearly). drawing on past experience to influence my present and future. staying in touch with old friends. typing a thousand words a minutes. Making waffles for breakfast (whipped cream and melted dark chocolate on top). I'm also an amazing sample sale-er. Love the beach. Esp fire island. Not for the parties but for the isolation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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bright deep blue eyes, off kilter wardrobe/accessories, poise, hats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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World Literature, modern memoirs, love existential crisis movies. Food: Indian, Middle Eastern, Thai,Mexican Food (although some say its just the margaritas I'm after). Love all kinds of cheese.

A Number of Names, Grimes, 2 Bears, Kraftwerk, Wire, of Montreal, Escort, Midnight Magic, Neon Indian, Talking Heads, Bowie, Nick Gilder, Hello, The Kills, Pulp, the Kinks, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Burial, Chairlift, Class Actress, Gotye, Hi-Fashion, M83,Trust, Tanlines,

Woody Allen
John Waters
Another Gay Movie
I'll watch just about anything

libros/novellas/revistas: How to be a New Yorker, The Year of Magical Thinking-Joan Didion, Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll-Eric Bogosian, On The Road-Jack Kerouac, It's Kind of a Funny Story-Ned Vizzini, Chronicle of a Death Foretold-Gabo Garcia Marquez, Sellevision-Augusten Burroughs, The Story of the Eye- Georges Bataille, Special Topics In Calamity Physics-Marisha Pessl, Love Letters-A.R. Gurney, Living to Die: 85% a True Story-Chuck Klosterman, Miss Misery-Andy Greenwald, How Soon is Never-Marc Spitz, Too Much, Too Late-Marc Spitz, Love is a Mix Tape-Rob Sheffield, Impulse-Ellen Hopkins, The Tragedy of Today's Gays-Larry Kramer, The Dying Animal-Philip Roth, Elements of Style-Wendy Wasserstein, A Million Little Pieces-James Frey, Dancer's Body-Allegra Kent, Running With Scissors-Augusten Burroughs, Dry-Augusten Burroughs, Crime and Punishment-Fyodor Dostoevsky, The City of Fallen Angels-John Berendt, Junky-William S. Burroughs, The Debutante Divorcee-Plum Sykes, Possible Side Effects-Augusten Burroughs Faggots-Larry Kramer, Clubland-Frank Owen, Magical Thinking-Augusten Burroughs Notes From the Underground-Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Grounding for the Metaphysics of Morals-Immanuel Kant, Bergdorf Blondes-Plum Sykes, Side Effects- Woody Allen, Without Feathers- Woody Allen, The DaVinci Code- Dan Brown, The Nanny Diaries-Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus, Angels in America-Tony Kushner, Woody Allen on Woody Allen-Stig Bjorkman, Prozac Nation-Elizabeth Wurtzel, Sweat your prayers-gabrielle roth, How I Paid For College-Marc Acito, Wacky Chicks-Simon Doonan, Hipster Handbook-Robert Lanham, Disco Bloodbath- James St. James, L'Etranger-Albert Camus, Rule of the Bone-Russell Banks, The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test-Tom Wolfe, Art-Yasmina Reza A Doll's House-Henrik Ibsen, The Little Prince-Antoine de Saint Exupery, Portnoy's Complaint-Philip Roth, Alan Ginsberg, Poe,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Imagination, My niece Lola, Sunday Brunches, sense of adventure, drive to keep evolving, wacky off-kilter accessories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make myself better and where I plan to spend my 40s and with whom....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since i leave work at 430 on Fridays, there is the typical mad dash to go spend my paycheck as soon as possible. Ill usually walk around midtown, pick up a bottle of vodka, something to wear that night, find a great Happy hour , or walk around Moma or the Whitney. I love the feeling of new found freedom that comes every Friday. After that dinner and drinks are almost always in order. After that it always varies...I am equally happy at home as i am out on the town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a bit of a pack-rat. I hate throwing things away.
You should message me if
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you are: someone who advocates for underdogs, someone who refuses stagnancy, someone who can evoke a change in my thought pattern, someone who can name drop deftly, someone committed, , someone with soul, someone who is not a golem, someone with a little rock and roll, someone who likes to drink vodka on the rocks, someone who is (at least) bilingually gifted, someone with a huge forgiving heart, someone who loves the smell of eucalyptus, someone who can sow, someone who can sing, someone who prefers coffee in the PM, someone who can reveal the pricing philosophy for Dsquared, someone who has an over-sized vocabulary, someone non-linear, someone who knows when the party is over...for the night, someone who trips the lights fantastic, someone who revels in old world accouterments, someone who is esoteric, someone who is a trend-forecaster, someone who is a bit chiaroscuro, someone who is a verbose eccentric babbler, someone who believes in writing letters, , someone who is vertically integrated, someone who uses "SMS" instead of "Text Messaging", someone who likes to spoon while listening to Spoon, someone as balsy as Michael Moore, someone who can translate Os Mutantes lyrics for me, someone who uses long forgotten about cliches, someone with a house that reeks of Nag Champa,