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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:38am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi! I'm Jay, a recent graduate from the University of Hertfordshire, where I studied English Literature. I live just outside of London which both sucks and is awesome at the same time. I can be really shy when meeting new people and get more stressed out than I should over it sometimes, but like to think that I open up and become a pretty decent guy when I get to know somebody. I'm easy to get along with and I value my friends a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I work as a lab technician for the Francis Crick Institute. Has absolutely nothing to do with my degree, but i'm becoming very interested in this field of work, and think it's something i'd like to pursue!
Outside of work stuff I'm big on movies, books and videogames, and always willing to try out new things. I also really enjoy travelling, although I don't get to do much of it these days, but going on holidays and exploring new places is always fun!
Other than that, i'm just trying to make more of an effort with exercising and keeping fit - I've recently discovered how much fun working out can be!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my eyes. They're grey, which is pretty uncommon to have and I suppose my glasses enhance them a bit?
Other than that, it's usually the differing amount of facial hair that's always on my face. I'm terrible at shaving, so there's bound to be some scruff there at all times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Catcher in the Rye, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Catch-22, Private Peaceful, The Outsiders, Series of Unfortunate Events, Wuthering Heights, Kafka on the Shore, Northern Lights, Looking for Alaska.

Any Disney/Pixar/Ghibli (i'm a big animation fan), The Nightmare Before Christmas, Inception, The Avengers, (500) Days of Summer, Juno, Battle Royale, X-Men, The Silver Linings Playbook.

Friends, Parks and Recreation, Community, Grey's Anatomy, New Girl, Miranda, Legend of Korra.

Final Fantasy, Kingdom Hearts, Spyro the Dragon, Crash Bandicoot, Xenoblade Chronicles, Animal Crossing, Super Smash Bros., Ratchet and Clank.

Anything, really. I switch between genres too much to pick any, and usually like individual songs instead of bands. Some that have stuck, though: No Doubt, Ingrid Michaelson, Regina Spektor, All-American Rejects, Florence and the Machine, Marina and the Diamonds, and am also a big fan of old school Rock and Roll music. A friend of mine is currently trying to introduce me into the wonders of Korean and Japanese music. Not sure if it's working yet! :P

Almost anything. Willing to try any food at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses (I'd spend forever walking into trees without them)
Animals (Don't think I could live without a dog around me)
The internet (How else could I fill my day exploring useless facts?)
Facial hair in the world (Not least of all because it would actually force me to get rid of mine.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to do with the rest of my life, and how that's all going to turn out.
What book I'm going to read next in my mammoth to-read pile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually i'll be sitting at home with a good book or a movie , but every now and again i'll escape to a club, bar or cinema with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pretend to love animals, but if I see a giant spider crawling across the floor, it will die and I wont feel that bad about it.
You should message me if
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You think I seem like the kind of guy you'd like to get to know. It's pretty easy for me to enjoy doing something, so if a big interest of yours isn't on my profile, then chances are i'd like doing it if it's with a cool guy. I'd like to think that I'm really easy to talk to, so don't be afraid to send me a message!