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JaysonKay

28 / M / Straight / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Tagalog (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am calm, laid back, and nonchalant. I am almost always extremely kind and considerate of other's wants and needs. I like composing techno music, drawing, anime, and games. I would identify myself as a nerd-raver-hipster, in that particular order. My style of humor is a cross between Bill Maher, Mitch Hedberg, and a little bit of Sarah Silverman.

How I think in a nutshell:

My philosophy is "a stranger is simply a person who hasn't been converted into a friend yet, not always but most of the time.." That might sound naive but I put a great deal of consideration into it and weighed all the pros, cons, and risks. I can read people fairly easily and it surprises me when people tell me I'm hard to figure out. I'm very understanding of other people's point of view and rarely ever get into any conflicts or confrontations. I try to make sure everybody wins in most situations above all else.

My friends and people who know me well have told me I'm nice, very mature for my age, well-adjusted, surprisingly wise, cool, smart. But to me, the biggest compliment I could hear is if you think I'm funny.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at a university as a figure model for life drawing classes (if you don't know what a figure model is: I get paid to stand naked in front of a classroom full of strangers who draw pictures of me so they can learn how to draw the human body) I love my job. Also I work part time as a host at a Chinese restaurant.

If that sounds interesting and doesn't freak you out, keep reading. (The part about figure modeling)

On the side I make music (mainly trance, techno, house, dubstep, and trap music. very passionate about it and experienced at it). Also had some of my songs played at a small hookah bar in the Central West End. *I don't sample pre-existing music, I compose from scratch. 22 years of piano and 6 years of producing electronica seriously.

Other than that I am very fond of drawing or daydreaming. I already achieved my biggest goal in life which was getting a bachelors degree in game design, only to find out I don't want to design games anymore, so I'm slumming right now while I try and figure out what else I would rather do with my life.
I’m really good at
Drawing 26 years, breakdance 6 years, playing the piano 22 years, martial arts 14 years, video games 23 years, figure modeling 6 years.  

listening, being patient, giving back massages, understanding and accepting others for who they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. My leather jacket and steel toed boots. My tendency to do back flips on occasion. People frequently say I'm well spoken and surprisingly articulate/intelligent/educated and that I don't sound or act like they anticipated (usually based on the ethnic preconceived norms in this culture. Translation, they expected me to speak ebonics, so they're taken aback when I dont).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
*Shows: Family guy, adventure time, southpark, weeds, being human, science shows, nature shows, cooking shows, syfy channel, Sarah Silverman, it's always sunny in philidelphia, whitest kids u know, 30 rock, ugly betty, pushing daisies, firefly, boondocks, foster's home for imaginary friends, fullmetal alchemist, bleach, star trek the next generation, eureka, squidbillies, fox news, soul eater, metalocolypse, law and order, maury, shin chan, jerry springer, Doctoor Who, Red Dwarf, the office, wondershowzen, anything by the cast of shaun of the dead, anything starring Mila Kunis, Heroes, boxing, UFC, Sex in the City, Daria, Ugly Americans, Mythbusters, No Reservations, Rachael Ray, ninja warrior, man versus food.

Movies: forrest gump, boondock saints, fight club, Minority report, lord of the rings, kung fu hustle, lethan weapon 4, inception, clockwork orange, harry potter, Amadele, butterfly effect, avatar, transformers, final fantasy 7 advent children, scarface, unbreakable, something about mary, meet the fockers, american pie, american beauty, cell, charlie bartlet, matrix, xiaolin soccer, earth girls are easy, chronicles of narnia, independence day, final destination, 300, clash of the titans, wrath of the titans, nothing 2 lose, equilibrium, in time, ninja turtles, jet li's fearless, unleashed, never back down, requiem for a dream, train spotting, eternal sunshine of a spotless mind, sunshine, training day, 50 first dates, Little Nicky, donnie darko, super size me, thank you for smoking, ted, Ninja Scroll, Vampire Hunter D, Golgo 13, Demon City Shinjuku, Dominion Tank Police, Record of Lodoss Wars, Neon Genesis, Tenchi Muyo, Once Upon a Time, Windaria, My Neighbor Totoro, Howl's Moving Castle, Ghost In The Shell, Darkstalkers, Night Warriors, Fatal Fury, Iczeleon, Grappler Baki, Slayers, Yuyu Hakusho, Animatrix, Dead Fantasy 1-6, Koyaanisquatsi

my favorite movie of all time is actually Mean Girls, oddly enough.

Music: dragonforce, manowar, basshunter, anabolic frollic, tiesto, DJ Bobo, Paul Van Dyk, Shpongle, Flux Pavilion, Aphex Twin, Children of Bodom, Die Antwoord, Eminem, Iron Maiden, ATB, Psy Gangnam Style, and any video game soundtracks and J Pop or K Pop between the years 1984-2007 but no later... in general I really like techno and metal... I recently learned to appreciate (and compose) dubstep music. I'm open to new music always, share with me things I haven't heard before. I know a lot of other music I like but it's hard to remember all the names.
The six things I could never do without
food, water, shelter, shoes, air, and my smart phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I would say but don't.

Things I should have said but didn't.
On a typical Friday night I am
going to shows

going to my favorite bar

Working

Walking up to homeless people and making them accept my offerings of food, liquor, cigarettes, clothes, or occasionally money if I'm not broke.

Standing somewhere smoking a cig

Going to bars that aren't my regular bar in hopes of finding my friends there

Occasionally saying "eff this crap and going to bed at 7pm so I can wake up feeling restless and energetic at 2am on Saturday morning"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I seem simple but I'm way more complex than I seem. My words and actions are simple but my thought processes are highly convoluted.

I get my hopes up very easily and am often just as easily let down.

Also, I genuinely enjoy the taste of MSG (monosodium glutimate) a popular additive in processed snack foods.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
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