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48 • Mountain View, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 34–53
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Sales / Marketing
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently)
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What can I say. With me what you see is what you get. What you hear is not a sales pitch. Not a game player. At least the psychological games between two people was never programmed into my DNA.
I'm a true romantic at heart. I've never cheated and never will. In me you will find your most passionate lover, your greatest cheerleader, your shoulder to lean on when times are tough, the hug when you need it most and most of all your best friend. That's what I'm capable of giving and would hope to get most, if not all in return.
I like cultured not pretentious, sophisticated and elegant, and not stuffy. I like down to earth, but not hippy dippy. Does she exist, I don't know. A great smile, I hope so, a great heart, none negotiable.
If I had five words to describe myself, or if my friends and exes had the challenge, I think the five would be.....
Passionate - I am passionate in everything I do. If you don't live life to its fullest I think something is missing or passing me by.
Intelligent - I think there is a difference between book smarts and street smarts. I think I have a bit of both, but consider myself more bright than smart.
Loyal - as one friend said of me, if he is your friend he is your friend for life. I choose my friends carefully and never think of myself as having lots of friends. My friends are like family. I truly would drop everything and go anywhere in the world at the drop of a hat.
Caring/Compassionate - If you don't have these two qualities which I count as one, then I truly believe you are a soulless person. I feel for those in need and am willing to help when needed. Kids and older people a like, like me.
Cultured - I am inquisitive and nosy, but in a good way. I want to know as much about everything and if I am asking questions it isnt to pry, but to learn and get to know about you or about something I don't yet know.
Genuine - I am adding a sixth. I am who I am take me or leave me. When I look at my report cards from as far back as kindergarten they describe me the same way then as I am today.
Being the best friend, father, son and brother I can possibly be.
movies, love them, almost all kinds from Casablanca to the Godfather 1 and 2 not 3 of course.
Food - I am not much of a picky eater
great restaurants. I'm a foodie but not obsessed
best close friends
Family, mine and extended
kitchens to cook in
And maybe most importantly you. Your eyes and soul I want to cherish and look deep into every morning and every night and the lips to kiss and silently express my deep love for you.
I will make the assumption that its ok to assume air, water, family etc are a given.
And maybe most importantly of all, a love to share my life with. A true partner who believes 50/50 over a lifetime and doesn't keep score daily. Some days it will be 90/10. Others 10/90 but over a lifetime I'd hope we get to 50/50.
Will society ever grow up or will the next fifty years be more of the last ten and if so what fun will that be......not
After a few experiences lately I have to add....
Please please please limit your issues to a carry-on. No psychos please. I promise not to tell you what's best for you as long as you don't do it to me.
Please know what you want before you go on a date with anyone. If open to a relationship know yourself and that you are capable to give it. If you want a fwb that's ok as well, but communicate it.
Back to the good stuff.
you go for life with all you have.
are cute, which is good enough for me.
still think kissing is an important concept.
You think a strong, but sensitive guy who is over the top passionate is someone you want to get to know.
Open to a relationship and fun along the way.
I'll court you anywhere you may currently reside. If you want to stay here forever that's ok as well. If it's someplace else I'm game.
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