Right now I'm not looking for anything too serious - I just want to take someone out and have a good time dancing, drinking, playing and exploring - but I'm not averse to a relationship if I meet someone I really like.
A good girl for me will like to be outdoors, or watching/dancing to live music, or drinking and watching a movie at home, or playing nerdy board games. She should probably love the beach. Being 420-friendly is a plus, though I personally don't care whether you smoke or not. Being dog-friendly is also pretty huge. I've got an amazing pup who means the world to me, and it's super attractive when girls baby her and give her love.
I need a girl to have some kind of intellectual depth, but I don't really care what kind. There's a lot of different ways to be smart. If you like reading or writing or making art, or playing music, or even just learning in general then we will get along. Bonus points if you like to read, because I love to write ;)
I also need a fair amount of emotional depth to be attracted to someone. I really appreciate simple things like flowers and sunsets and hand-written notes. The most beautiful things in life are small and easily overlooked. If this makes no sense to you, you probably won't get me at all.
Last thing, I don't think messaging online is a good way to get to know someone. Don't get me wrong, i fucking love texting w my people - it's just not the way to build a connection or even see if one exists. So I'm gonna want to get coffee or drinks or dinner after a few messages. If you want to become penpals before we ever meet in person then I'm probably out.