Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an intense yet gentle, drama-free man attempting to create art
from life. On the surface I'm a good-natured bon vivant who loves
good coffee and intelligent, playful conversation; but once I trust
you, I will plumb the depths of your heart and rock your
I'm a guitarist and percussionist, and learning an awesome Italian
percussion instrument called the tammorra. I am often found with
American or Brazilian friends listening to bossa nova or dancing
samba, or jamming in the style Brazilians call "pagode".
Another group of old friends has also led me to explore the realms
of personal development and authentic relating, and in many ways
that is where I am facing my biggest opportunities for growth and
challenge. The many offshoots of the Integral movement are taking
me on a fabulous journey of self-discovery.
I'm a social worker by trade. It's a stable gig and I get to help
people, but it doesn't begin to define me.
I am a social creature but need lots of time alone too. It's a
To go on this ride with me, you must know and love yourself and
your body, and love being a woman. Have something to offer that no
one else on earth can offer, and know instinctively what that is.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm helping fellow healers interact better with the health system.
I'm developing a private coaching practice fueled by the two
streams of positive psychology and the integral movement. I'm
making people happy through music.
I am often found cooking my Italian food, practicing guitar and
percussion, and getting together with a group of very old friends
to explore subjects related to spirituality, relationships, and
sexuality. I have a rigorous home-based yoga practice and strength
training routine that keeps me in shape. I'm looking for a cardio
routine that won't bore me to death -- something competitive that
doesn't require a ton of equipment.
My teenage daughter is abroad for the summer & goes off to
college in the Fall. (Although she hasn't lived with me for a long
time, we saw each other a lot.) So my calendar now has lots of room
and I'm ready to come out & play!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
performing small acts of chivalry -- not because you can't do
things for yourself, but just because it's fun...finding
little-known places you'd love in Manhattan...cooking seasonally,
using local ingredients when possible. Pesto sauce in the summer,
acorn squash in the Fall, hearty baked meals in the
Winter...entertaining myself alone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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An engaging smile, a slim-fit shirt, Italian shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite authors: George Orwell, Pablo Neruda, Cesar Vallejo, James
Wright, Tobias Wolf, Robert Bly, Eckhart Tolle, David Deida, Ken
Italian food. Italian food. Spanish food. Italian food.
My thoughts on TV:
I value quiet time at home, both alone and with my partner. I was
living without a TV set since way before such a thing became
"cool". I can take or leave TV, and will watch your favorite show
with you. However, if you're the kind of person who spends all
weekend with the TV on, we are probably not a good match.
My favorite musicians are Brazilian: Heitor Villa-Lobos, Dorival
Caymmi, Tom Jobim, Luiz Bonfá, Baden Powell, Marcos Valle, Marisa
Monte, Bossacucanova, and Paulinho da Viola, to name a few. And,
since a two-week trip to Southern Italy, I am addicted to the
Italian styles known as tammorriata and tarantella.
The six things I could never do without
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3. e-mail / Facebook
4. My daughter's phone number
5. ATM card
6. smart phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex. Yup. (I said I was gentle, not dead.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home relaxing after a long week. I am usually home late on most
other weeknights, and I go out often on Saturday nights, so Friday
is my night to stay in, cook something tasty, get in an hour of
music practice, and maybe watch a movie before turning in. Friday
nights are also the best time to find me online, if you're into
"chatting", which I don't do often but definitely will if you're
local and sound serious about meeting up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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For search purposes, I shaved a couple years off my age on this
profile. However, the photos are current.
You should message me if
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you own at least one pair of high heels. Any color, any style, any
designer. You don't have to wear them to our date -- in fact, I
won't ever even need to see them. I happily explain my reasons
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