First off, I have joined this site not to find an instant partner, but to find friends. It is unfair to add the pressure of "could I be in a relationship / marry / be with this person for ever" to the first time ever meeting someone. Making these decisions takes years people!
With that in mind, please take a second to review my profile and questions, and ask yourself: Could I be friends with this person? Is this person someone that I may enjoy being around or could foresee becoming buddy ol' pals with.
I am a 28 year old male living in Grand Rapids that is motivated by his work and career but has not become a slave to them. I love the finer things in life but derive and equal amount of satisfaction from ratting out with my friends and not acting my age.
I weigh the success of my life by how many people you can share inside jokes and laughter with. I am always looking for new people to put that uncomfortable bad pun face on. :)