I am a feminist, cisgendered, and drug-free.
My Self-Summary
I like to think I am a good combination of frivolous and practical.
I love gushing about trash media (example: I've seen every episode
of Gossip Girl, I read New Moon in less than 24 hours) but I swear
I'm also a legitimate person with ambitions of doing small amounts
of good in the world where ever possible. I practice yoga about
three times a week, I would love some good studio suggestions, I
haven't found my perfect place here yet. Also I no longer use the
word straight-edge, but I've always been drug free. I don't care if
you are or not. I suppose I need to put in the obligatory
disclaimer that bisexual sounds like 1994 and if I'm anything I'm
queer. Also don't you dare question my feminist identity based on
my long hair.
What I’m doing with my life
Okay I hate these weird categories so I'm just going to be honest
about my whole deal. I went to undergrad at Temple University in
Philadelphia where I've been living the past five years. I've
recently moved to Portland to begin my Grad work at PSU and I miss
my friends. I'm in an open relationship and I live with my partner.
Our relationship has always been open so don't ask me annoying
questions about it, I promise you, I can hang out with you/kiss
you/laugh with you/maybe fuck you and my partner will be cool with
it.
The bottom line is all my close (and amazing) friends in
Philadelphia had OKcupid profiles, somehow I feel by creating my
own profile I will meet their Portland equivalents. So please
invite me to your house the night you and all your friends watch
Buffy the Vampire Slayer and talk about sex and gender/feminist
theory.
But what I'm actually doing with my life is starting my Masters in
Communications with a focus in Women Studies, being a Nanny,
working for RecyleBank (oooohhh maybe you saw us on Oprah!) and
volunteering at Bradley Angle (google it, you should volunteer
too). I'd also like to be hanging out with you.
I’m really good at
Geeking out about pop culture and sci-fi. Putting people in a good
mood.
The first things people usually notice about me
My most superficial fear is the first thing people notice about me
is my acne. You can't tell from the pictures because I'm not going
to post shitty pictures of myself, but I have acne and acne scars
on my cheeks. I really don't like having long blonde hair anymore
but I think it distracts from my complexion. If my skin ever clears
up the first thing I'm going to do is chop off all my hair and let
it go back to it's natural color.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Going along with keeping my balance of frivolousness and
practicality I like to read one what I call "real person book" and
then one "bullshit/pleasure book"
So recently the order has been: Susan Brownmillers "Femininity"
then I reread Chuck Klosterman's "Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs"
because reading Chuck Klosterman is like going on a date with
someone you have already decided you will not sleep with but you
know being able to have in depth discussions about "Saved by the
Bell" is rare so you don't want to give them up. After that I read
a completion of short stores edited by Michelle Tea called "Without
a Net" after that the previous mentioned "New Moon" then bell
hook's "Feminism is for Everyone" but that was short so now I'm in
the middle of Julia Serano's "Whipping Girl."
I see I've already rambled on more than most do in their profiles
so I'll try to make this more concise. I love television and
movies, highlights include: (television) Veronica Mars, Battlestar
Galactica, Freaks and Geeks, Arrested Development, Skins, and duh
Buffy the Vampire Slayer. (movies) Me and You and Everyone We Know,
Before Sunset, Before Sunrise, Annie Hall, The Triplets of
Belleville, but also so I don't misrepresent myself I could watch
Can't Hardly Wait, Reality Bites, and Empire Records everyday for
the rest of my life and be happy.
Music: All I need right now is Mirah, Deer Tick, and Jeffrey Lewis
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, our collective future.
On a typical Friday night I am
filling out this profile apparently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I read and write fanfiction. But only for Veronica Mars. No matter
how close we become, I will never let you read it.
You should message me if
You read all of this. You weren't annoyed by my grammatical errors.
Also I based on my profile it seems like I would talk a lot, which
is true, but I am also a good listener. I just want to make some
friends in Portland as pathetic as that sounds.