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Jeaux317

32 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Oct 4
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would like to think that I'm reasonably intelligent. Sometimes cynical (but never clinical). I was born and raised in Brooklyn, but I've lived far enough away for a long enough time to truly appreciate our diversity, our Chinese food, and our public transportation. I would, however, love to travel more. I have wonderful, loyal, smart, kind, hilarious friends who really like me, so that counts for something, right?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a social worker for the NYC Dept. of Education, which keeps me pretty busy. I try to spend time with my lovely friends as often as possible, which. sadly, is often impossible. I like to sing jazz and blues, but mostly just in the shower these days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving gifts, assessing the safety of children, arguing, sticking up for the underdog, offering a counterpoint, eye rolling and quizzical expressions, and organizing/designing/decorating small apartments.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm told that I look rather mean until I start talking. People also say I have a nicely shaped head. Seriously, that's what they say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Michael Chabon, Richard Powers, Gunter Grass, Toni Morisson, Salman Rushdie, Kurt Vonnegut, Jeanette Winterson, Italo Calvino, Nalo Hopkinson, Graham Greene, Don DeLillo, Michael Cunningham, Cristina Garcia, Yukio Mishima, Wallace Stevens, Langston Hughes, V.S. Naipaul, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, J.M. Coetzee, James Baldwin, Edwidge Danticat, Milan Kundera, Franz Kafka.

Amadeus, The Last Emperor, Waiting for Guffman, Transamerica, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, The Color Purple, All About Eve, Amelie, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Princess Bride, Hero, I Heart Huckabees, Shaolin Master Killer.

Madmen, In Living Color, Absolutely Fabulous, Thirty Rock, Downton Abbey, Arrested Development, Jeopardy, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, Portlandia.

Erykah Badu, Bill Withers, Janelle Monae, Nina Simone, Ella Fitzgerald, Sarah Vaughan, Dinah Washington, Billie Holiday, Stevie Wonder, De La Soul, Deee-Lite, Disclosure, Phoebe Snow, Amy Winehouse, Common, Bilal, Sun Ra, Amel Larrieux, Queen, Janis Joplin, Laura Nyro, Lucinda Williams, Jay-Z, Notorious B.I.G., and House- deep, soulful, funky, stank house music. Yes.

Food? When? Right Now? Chinese factors so very prominently in my life. But I'm also into pretty much anything/everything else. Try me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.Coffee.
2.Books.
3.Metrocard.
4.The sense that tomorrow is another day.
5.501's.
6.Humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Special education reform, child safety and social welfare policy, institutionalized racism, sexism and homophobia. I also think about music a lot- I spend more time "listening" to music in my head than actually listening to music, which may make me totally crazy, but it's the truth. I think about how lucky I am to live in NYC, if Trader Joe's has ___, and if I'm the only gay white 90's hip hop nerd out there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Utterly exhausted from a long week of worrying about other people's children, which means I'm happy to stay home, cook/retrieve some food, read a bit, and watch Netflix. Pretty low key during the school year, and more of a party monster during the long and glorious summer break (minus the drugs, murder, and glitter). I'd like to find someone who is equally happy and comfortable staying in with a bottle of wine, or going out dancing until 4am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That thing about listening to music in my head was pretty bad. What else? I have an identical twin brother. He's much thinner than me. Bastard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to read books, if you have a dark sense of humor, if you like "Bearish" guys, if you like dancing to 80's and 90's house music, if you know the lyrics to any early De La Soul or A Tribe Called Quest songs, if you are kind, warm, and affectionate, and/or if you make good, strong coffee.