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45 F Cedar Rapids, IA

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
July 2014-
I'm only "window-shopping" at this point, as I'm not 100% sure if I'm back on here yet...

Since it is becoming more and more obvious with each passing day that 97% of you guys don't read the profiles, I will place this here at the top so hopefully you might read it by accident. Save us both a little time by NOT sending me a message that reads, "hi," or any form of the word "hi." I will not return it. That says several things to me: You didn't take ANYTIME to read my profile AND you're one of THE MOST BORING CREATURES on this site!!!

I'm really not sure why this keeps happening, but since it does I feel the need to address it. I am NOT on here trolling for sex!!! I realize that many of you are and that's great-for you. But I am NOT. May I suggest you go to "" or some other skanky website such as that, to find that sort of shit...

This is me in a nutshell-take it, or leave it.
I'm a free-spirit-hippie-chick-bohemian-type. I'm educated, smart, witty, caring, kind, honest to a fault, hilarious, creative, loving, and passionate. I can always make fun of myself and I always take responsibility for my own actions/mistakes.
I am a vegetarian, but please don't make the assumption that I only date other vegetarians. I do date meat-eaters and I'm not on any crusade to change people to my way of thinking. However, you will need to know how to cook your own meat dishes, as I DO NOT cook any meat products...

I love all animals and I especially love dogs. I have 3 dogs of my own, so you must love dogs.

I'm a jeans, t-shirt, and sneakers/sandals/barefoot kind of girl. I'm very low- maintenance. I do not own a dress, skirt, or high heels. I like to look nice, but it doesn't take me 4 hours to get ready to go to the grocery store.

Basically, I'm an awesome person who cares waaay too much about other people. I'm sick of being stepped on and looked over, just because I'm not a size 2 blonde bimbo in a bikini.

A few random things I like are as follows: Farmers markets, flea markets, antique stores, photography, art, nature, animals, dog/rescue dogs, thunderstorms/lightening, guacamole, avocados, mexican food, cheese, tomatoes, cilantro, nutty wheat bread, patchouli oil, zip-up hoodie sweatshirts, Grey Goose Vodka, Buddhism, Converse sneakers(or Chuck Taylors as I still and will always call them)guys with long hair, guys with cool glasses, guys with cool tattoos, guys that smile just because...(or cool guys with long hair, glasses, tattoos, and Converse sneakers who smile just because...IDK...) Cool bald or balding guys with glasses, and tattoos are fine too, as long as you don't look ANYTHING like my 3 brothers! Kinda gotta draw the line there-Sorry! :(
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working in a professional job that pays great, has tons of boring paper/computer work, and allows me absolutely no creative outlets...
I’m really good at
Designing jewelry. I've had a side biz for over 6 years where I design & sell my jewelry. It's a great therapeutic outlet for me because it's so different from my day job. I recently started selling my jewelry at the City Market in CR.
I'm also a pretty decent cook and I'm always trying new recipes. I'm always taking my new creations into work to share with my co-workers. They pretty much love me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are Siddhartha and Where the Wild Things Are.

Some of my favorite movies are High Fidelity, Office Space, Clerks, Chasing Amy, Pulp Fiction, Better Off Dead, Rushmore, The Truth About Cats and Dogs, and The Wedding Singer.

This is just a small sample of my favorites bands/artists: The Dead, Zeppelin, Foo Fighters, Jack Johnson, Ben Harper, Ray Lamontagne, Beck, Cake, any project Jack White touches, Jane's Addiction, Tori Amos, Ani Di Franco, Pearl Jam/Eddie Vedder, G. Love, Lenny Kravtiz, DMB, Bowie, Dylan, The Stones, Classical music (Brahms, Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, etc.), 80's music, Funk, etc. I love music! I'm not crazy about rap unless its The Beasties and NO country unless it's Johnny Cash.

My favorite TV shows are Law & Order and all of its "spin-offs", Criminal Minds, SNL, Bob's Burger's, King of the Hill, Chappelle Show, Oddities, Restaurant Stakeout, Diners, Drive Ins and Dives, Seinfeld, X-Files, IFC and Hawkeye football/basketball(Men's College basketball in general).
The six things I could never do without
My family/friends, dogs, music, sun, flowers/plants, art.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Living on a small hobby farm (someday with a significant other) and working for myself. Being a vegetarian, I would love to grow as much of my own food as possible.
I would love to have a small CSA for my family and friends. I think it would also be nice to be able to have a deal with the local food bank to share the abundance of crop with those who are less fortunate. They would be able to enjoy fresh foods in-season, when perhaps they might not get the opportunities to do so.
I think about how I would want to make my home/farm as "Green" as I could with whatever technologies were up-to-date at that point in time, ie: solar, wind, etc.

But most of all, I think about how great it would be to find a guy who will love me for me, flaws and all. I need someone who "gets me" and wants to grow old with me...
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually at home chilling with my dogs, and making jewelry or doing something artistic.
If I have Market the next day, then I'm getting things together and packing up the Jeep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I rarely date guys older than me. You will have to be pretty spectacular to get my attention and keep it...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have read the majority of my profile, you truly believe we have many interests in common, and you are NOT materialistic.

It would really be great if you took some time and compared our answers in the Match/Enemy question section, as you would really get to know my stance on life, love, treatment of others, my deepest thoughts, etc...

*VERY IMPORTANT-Please do not contact me if you are a hunter

**Please don't contact me of you're married, have a gf, or are in any sort of poly-bull-shit-relationship.