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  • Ages 30-60
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an ENFP on the Myers Briggs, which means that I tend to be the last one to show up at a party, as well as the last one to leave. I'm enthusiastic and an extrovert. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am pretty much an open book.

I tend to be attracted to introverts, but to be honest, that has created some challenges in my relationships. I can be just getting geared up in the evening when they're wanting to wind down.

I have several close friends, including former boyfriends.

I love to cook and feed people - and make mealtime special. Nothing makes me happier than seeing my boyfriend enjoy eating something I've made. What can I say, I'm Italian.

In fact, I'm an Italian citizen - I have dual citizenship - and one of my greatest accomplishments is having tracked down relatives in Italy and Sicily that we had lost contact with for a long time.

I'm very close to my family, and still haven't given up on the possibility of adopting children. I want to make lasagna for a house full of people! In the meantime, I'm considering housing and feeding students who are studying abroad. I would love that.
I call my mom in Ohio (that's where I grew up) when I am cooking so that she can walk me through her way of making things. My dad died about 5 years ago.

I love to travel, and I'm also a homebody.

I have ADD, which makes me easily distractible, but also energetic, smart and a lot of fun.

I like being active - playing sports and spending time outdoors. I love Walden Pond and the beach.

I'm a musical theater fan. Saw Next to Normal three times and cried through it each time.

Relationships and meaningful work - along with exercise, yoga, healthy food, an optimistic attitude, a sense of humor and a good night's sleep - are the ingredients for a happy life, and those are my priorities.

Look forward to hearing from you!

I am outgoing, enthusiastic, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
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for fun:
Yoga, swimming, Walden Pond, traveling, movies, trips to Rehoboth Beach, cooking, board games, cards, theater, genealogy, time with family and friends, Words with Friends, pinochle and bridge

my job:
I love what I do for work. Most of it relates to education and psychology. Mainly I work with schools to make them better places for LGBTQ students. I've also taught college courses in psychology and advised students for several years.

my education:
I went to Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois, for undergrad - then University of California at Santa Barbara (UCSB) for graduate school - and Harvard Grad School of Education after that.
I’m really good at
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meeting people, telling a story, laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and my energy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Theater: Next to Normal, Sunday in the Park with George, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Death of a Salesman, Is There Life After High School?, Follies, Merrily We Roll Along, Chamber Music
Books: Maurice, Howards End, Pride and Prejudice, Frog and Toad
Movies: Ordinary People, Norma Rae, All About My Mother, Harold and Maude, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Once, His Secret Life, Undertow
Music: Nina Simone, Rickie Lee Jones, Barbara Cook, Bruce Springsteen, Red Molly, Sam Smith, musical theater
Food: Italian, Seafood and anything ethnic, Life Alive
Cafes: Three Little Figs, 1369
The six things I could never do without
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friends, family, yoga, Greek yogurt, Ziplock bags, humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
having a meaningful life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making dinner
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't let go of things or people easily.
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