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JeffForYou

52 Berlin, CT Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:56am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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PLEASE NOTE!! Spelling and punctuation are your friend! Please don't contact me if u wrt like ths. If you don't have time to write an entire word, we wouldn't get along at all. Text-speak is perfectly fine for texting.

AND!! - Can we please declare a moratorium on profiles that say "I love to laugh" and "I live life to the fullest". Have you ever met anyone who hates to laugh?

At this point I'm just completely confused as to why this site doesn't match me with anyone even remotely compatible or aligned with my preferences. I know....it's free. I shouldn't complain. I wish I could just check: Nice Gal, Lives Close, Not Crazy, Emotionally Available. I'm being greedy, right?

I'm very young at heart and looking for the same. A game or movie on TV is great, but I prefer to be outside. Autumn in Connecticut is a wonderful time. Want to go to a fair, catch a Husky football game, go apple picking or wine tasting? Meeting for coffee or drink with no pressure is always a great place to start.

As for me....I'm a Dad to two wonderful boys, one in college, and one in high school. I have many interests but no unhealthy obsessions. I'm a great cook (culinary school grad), I own my own business where helping others achieve their goals is my mission. I work extremely hard but have a very flexible schedule. I don't take myself too seriously, and I'm not drawn to those who do.

I think my best years are ahead, and I want to find someone who wants to share the adventure with me

At this point in our lives, we both know what we want. Physical attraction is as important as ever, but we want more too. I'm hoping to meet a woman who shares my interests but will teach me about hers. She has kids and will enjoy mine. She doesn't want a man with lots of toys, but does want a man with depth of character. She doesn't judge a man by his material possessions, but on his kindness, honesty and personality. She loves my sense of humor. She has diverse interests and has a zest for learning.

I'm sure that none of us ever expected to be online looking for a partner at this point in our lives. But let's embrace this opportunity and enjoy the experience!

If you like what you've read, and you think we'd click, please drop me a note. I'd love to hear from you.

If you're out of state, or live too far away for us to step away from what we're doing for a cup of coffee and a kiss, it's just not realistic to try and connect.

Let's exchange some notes, emails or texts. Have coffee or a drink. Take a risk. Have some fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising two wonderful boys
Helping others
Looking for you
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you smile
Making you laugh
Cooking (Culinary School Grad)
Helping others understand their greatness
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list...
Though I recently finished "I am Pilgrim" which I thought was well written for a mass market novel.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Books
Music
Food
Air
Water

Sorry...just not sure how this question will help you decide if you want to meet me....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to ensure my obituary has meaning

and....

If there is anyone on these dating sites that doesn't want to "live life to the fullest"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Blah, blah, blah...there is no typical Friday night...
I'm at home
I'm out with [fill in the blank]
Relaxing

Pick one...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Again...who really gives a rat's ass
You should message me if
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....You want to meet someone different than the others, who will treat you with respect and kindness. Who is loyal, honest, and doesn't give a crap what other people think.

Again, this doesn't really matter. I write to woman, they don't write back....you write to me, and I don't write back. Who are we kidding? Message me if you want to know what it's like to meet someone who's not full of shit. It's just that simple.

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