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30 M Cedar Lake, IN

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Now, Let's see where to start. I don't want to give away too much information about myself because then there would be nothing to talk about in messages, but want to give enough information.

To begin, I am from the Northwest Indiana area. I was born and raised here, just outside Chicago. It's been nice having a major city really only 45 minutes away by car. When in high school I played the violin in the orchestra and sang bass in the choir. While I did not continue with the violin, I carried on with the singing (pretty much in the car and shower). But, this gave me a better appreciation for music.

I finished my education with a Masters Degree in Computer Graphics. I had moved away for the start of my grad school, but ultimately ended up back here in the area. For the moment I can say I am done with school and am now pursuing a career using what I learned.

For my current employment, I was teaching at local universities. It is a great feeling to give back to others through teaching. I had some great teachers during my time in school, and some pretty bad ones. So, I will try to be the best teacher I know how and understanding of students and their individual needs. Teaching has also helped me become better at speaking with people, or in front of large groups of people. Will say I used to dread giving a speech, now I have become very at ease with this.

I have since moved into a position as a web developer at a local marketing company. The main part of my job is making websites for veterinarians world wide. It is a rather enjoyable job and position, allows me at times to test what I learned throughout school. Now, it may seem strange that we almost exclusively make websites for veterinarians, yet the demand is there. And with how much I love animals, this was a nice change and allows me to help make things that helps their well-being.

As for my personal surroundings, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats. Both of my cats stay with my parents, as that the house that they grew up in and have my parents cats as companions. However, I could never see myself living without a dog in my life. I have a husky and a chihuahua, which is a little strange and seems to be from two opposite ends of the spectrum. I used to have the brother to my girl husky, unfortunately lost him a couple years back to cancer. From these two and my one previous dog, huskies are by far my favorite type of dog to own anymore.

From this I hope it shows me to be an educated, motivated, understanding, animal loving type of person. If you want to know anything else, please do drop me a message. I am willing to answer pretty much anything you ask.

***Note: I want to get this out of the way. Yes, I do live in Indiana just outside Chicago. However, I want to clear up that I am only about 40 minutes outside of downtown Chicago. Also, I have absolutely no problem driving up into the city to do things. I try to get up into the city as often as I can anyhow. So please, look past the "distance" as it seems, and really get to know me instead.
What I’m doing with my life
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Dreaming, thinking, doing...

Dreaming about everything in general.

Thinking about the future and what lays ahead of me.

Doing... well, just experiencing life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making someone smile. I seem to have a knack that when I really want to lighten up a mood with someone I can.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Movies:
Transformers, Sherlock Holmes, Spaceballs, Star Trek, Avatar, Prince of Persia, Pirates of the Caribbean, Accepted, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, and others.

Favorite TV Shows:
Stargate Series (each of them), Being Human, Firefly, Two and a Half Men, Big Bang Theory, Mad Love, and a few more.

Favorite Music:
I love old alternative music the most, but my favorite band of all time would be Story of the Year. Next to that would be Splender.

Favorite Food:
Anything really that I would want to try. I am not too picky, and can find at least something on a menu.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family - They have been there through everything I have gone through, both good and bad.
2) Friends - I rely on some of my best friends for everything, even if we are only able to chat online right now.
3) My pets - I love each of them dearly, they have helped to cheer me up by always enjoying my attention.
4) My computer/laptop - My degree in Computer Graphics requires me to have the need to have one around.
5) Love - This world would be rather boring without the possibility of love and the chance to grow old with someone.
6) Humor - I love to laugh, it helps to brighten my mood and keeps me going when I need a pick me up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What everyone does, just about anything and everything. Pretty much whatever hits me in the moment and takes over my thought process.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Like most there is no typical. It changes as I have nothing set in stone I do every Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would depend, why not ask and find out what it might be? It is a private matter, so why make it public to everyone?
You should message me if
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You are someone looking to meet a unique and different kind of guy - someone who will actually get to know you in return.