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JemDog

59 / M / Straight / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:55am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Arabic, French

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My self-summary
I was on assignment to Africa for a year, but am now back permantently. I have a house in DC and am both a professional (work for the Federal Government) and a writer (I have an agent in New York). I have traveled the world extensively, mostly to dangerous places, but live on Capital Hill near Eastern Market. I speak some French and Arabic, but both are pretty rusty these days.

My ideal woman has intelligence, courage and beauty, inside and out. I want a passionate attachment. I'm an adventurer, but want a serious relationship that lasts.

I exercise regularly and believe in keeping in shape.

Something unusual about me. Well, I have a dog who is quarter terrier, quarter lab and half African street dog. He's the only dog I know who has figured out how to open doors with round doorknobs. Of course, that's not something unusual about me, but him. Fortunately, I've always been able to open doors with round doorknobs! Well, since I was 5 years old. Scout has been doing it since he was 1. You decide who is smarter. :)

I like movies and quiet dinners together. The beach and the mountains. I'm am retiring soon and will devote my time to writing, although I will continue to work as a diplomat part time. I'd love to get an old house somewhere and fix it up, as well. I've always enjoyed working with my hands. Before I became a world traveler I was a carpenter and handyman, but that was a LONG time ago now. I used to spend a lot of time in the North Woods of Minnesota, on the Canadian border, and one of my novels is set there. I have not been back in years but would love to go again.

I have a son. He's 27 and living at home. He was a war orphan in Africa and has been with me since he was 14. He's the young guy in my photos.

I write poetry as well as novels and non-fiction. Here is a poem.

Elegy For Alex

In all of infinite space
Among all the sea of life and distance
He was the unlikeliest of souls.

Unexpected eyes on the traffic of human migration,
A dream where no dreamer was known,
Unlooked for and denied by the judges of shade
Who see far but not long.

He spoke in ancient tongues
That told of green faces in anxious rainfalls,
While wondering at the confusion of our solitude.

He spoke of forgetful separation until finally one heard him,
Like thunder in the sun on a far sea.
And hearing, she listened to the impossible stories
Of the sky's triumph over gravity.

She taught him, and in learning he revealed
The shapes of color and the textures of mind.

Alex showed us that living is bigger than the weight of water
Or the height of steel and glass.
He showed us all a future of a million crystal wings
Laced with the veins of a common blood.
He showed us the roots of the ancient fire that burns
Through all the outstretched arms of the past.

And, at the last, he showed us that thought is an eye in the stars
And love is the last thing you speak on
Becoming the wind that brings you home,
A pale grey feather on an eddy of balanced light
That comes to rest on your aching hand
So soft
So quiet
So divine

Like the tear drop that does not let him go.
What I’m doing with my life
I serve the American people as their representative overseas.
I’m really good at
Writing. I have written 3 novels and have two more books in rough draft. My first novel, Touched With Fire, will soon be published.
The first things people usually notice about me
That beautiful pumpkin head of mine!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Jesus, Interrupted: Revealing the Hidden Contradictions in the Bible (And Why We Don't Know About Them)
Bart D. Ehrman

Kepler's Witch by James Connor (Bio of the Astronomer)

I like all kinds of food. I like Rock and Roll, Celtic, New Age, Classic Rock and all sorts of other music.

I watch movies often. A recent favorite was Departures, a Japanese film. But I am also low brow, and like things like Men in Black.
The six things I could never do without
Music. Dancing. Intimacy. Books. My son. Movies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New books to write. And, of course, I am a man!
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends, out to dinner, or dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to get to know me!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–66
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
My ideal woman has intelligence, courage and beauty, inside and out. I want a passionate attachment. I'm an adventurer, but want a serious relationship that lasts.