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45 F Columbus, OH

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Today – 7:58am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I am an independent, busy, and sensuous woman who likes having her solitude periodically disturbed by a man of that same type with whom to share the things we've felt, thought, dreamt, read, heard, discovered, and accomplished (or failed to accomplish) in our time apart. Even if our meetings are only periodic, forming deep attachments seems to happen naturally with any man I have stayed involved with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Inflicting Shakespeare on the uncaring; cooking almost everything I eat from the pantry-up; strong-arming children who eat only the insipid poultry nugget; squeezing disappointment until the sweetness drips out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enticing others to play in the dangerous maze of language.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look considerably younger than my age [knows she's the first to EVER say that]
That I have glamorous eyes and cheeks bones [flutters lashes coyly; takes another sip of wine]
That I'm always well put-together (I'm more of a free-spirit than I look)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Shakespeare's second tetralogy
Edna St. Vincent Millay's sonnets
Music: Cohen, Bach, Dylan, Natalie Merchant, Cole Porter
Food: Greek, Indian, Sushi, Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Watching onions slowly caramelize.
Leonard Cohen's voice
Shakespeare's half puns
Mangling cliches
The sound of a cork coming out of a bottle
Da Vinci's Madonna of the Rocks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Really, it's about that moment.
-That moment when it stops being a game.
-That moment when intellect fails.
-That moment when chemistry ascends.
-That moment when the first kiss goes from potential to inexorable.
Yes, that moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Plotting to heist Villa Borghese, at least on the weekends I don't have the kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I secretly wish that an uncomfortable rash would be visited upon everyone who says, "If I told you, it wouldn't be private" in response to this question. I WON'T admit where that rash should be. (OK, this feels meaner than I usually am)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your hands need a break from writing, painting, playing, sculpting, cooking, etc; your eyes want rest from reading or studying the things you love; your mind seeks respite from untying knotty problems; or your spirit deserves solace from feeling it never quite finds the time to do what it would like.