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32 • Vernon Rockville, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 13
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on space camp
- Banking / Finance
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
Verbosity aside, I am a dangerously fierce feminist, prone to fits spontaneity, and insufferably optimistic. Gender binaries can get buried in a hole. I identify as omnisexual. I am sex positive and ascribe to The Ethical Slut manifesto.
My socially "adept" peers sing me this mantra of OkCupid. "The odds are good, but the goods are odd." They think it derides this site for having weird, mentally unstable, and unacceptably socially dissident members. I say, that saying is perfect! My definition of hell is having to date/cojoin with a normal person.
I think that going out to a restaurant solo is perfectly normal. I've been known to go to the cheesecake factory singleton as a reward. I get odd looks, but hey, I'm odd and unrepentant.
Recently I am pushing for a swimmer's physique again. Oh the cyclical nature of fitness.
Next off, I am extremely good at being gullible and loving it.
Recognizing that Good sex should be giving more than you're getting and doesn't end nor start with a penis.
Googling me, the true test of how an individual is known, might reveal that I am an affluent competitive magic player. I play card games that make Poker look like a circus. For my first two years of College this yielded more income than my job at my hotel would have!
My left brain thinks strategically (raised in a house of cutthroat business folk), my right brain tries to smother the left side with love, sex, and insanity (see social deviance).
Unfortunately, this often makes me less approachable than I always am, but I crush the geek stereotype of social ineptitude. I am willingly awkward, not insufferably so.
I also have a near-fetish-like fascination with imperfection. All my clothes have slight (sometimes more than slight) tears or unseamed bits in them (see profile pic 1). Tattoos, piercings, scars, freckles, you name it are enticing to me. Someone willing or engaged in activities that could alter their bodies shows a confidence that is not socially normative. and THAT is highly attractive to me.
I really try to enjoy Jim Butcher and George R.R. Martin, but they're misogynists who can die in a hole.
Movies: I am a die-hard-movie fanatic (not the Willis series, the genre), and rarely will say no to a movie-viewing, especially with others. Whether in a movie theatre, a home system, on a computer, or long distance over Skype, I enjoy sharing movies with others. Even better if the individual is nearby to share warmth with. And even best when cuddling may ensue whilst watching. The best movies I've watched with company I don't know how ended.
Music: Withstanding Scream-o and highly derogatory-towards-women music (oft some rap or punk), I have yet to find music that I don't enjoy. My ipod and iphone have a collection spanning from classical to metal, from euro club music to Polynesian tribal chants. Chillstep and marina and the Diamonds are my two most recent eargasmic pleasures. I DARE you to find me a music genre I wouldn't pseudopod into my collection. Withstanding blatant misogyny or overt hate.
Shows: If there is romance, i'm interested. If you combine that romance with comedy and cuteness, I'm on it. If you then add on good writing and intriguing storylines, I will rub my face in it and love it. I am particularly fond of witty and quirkly-verging-on-cheesy shows. Here's just a few I adore and could watch over and over. "Elementary, Castle, Dr Who (both pre and post 2005), Firefly, Davinci's Demons." I also guiltily pleasure myself by checking out competitive cooking shows of the hilariously dramatic bent.
I also enjoy watching old campy cheesy sci shows with others. Star Trek TNG, Seaquest, SCG-1 to name a few.
Food: I'm willing to try anything, including the most gross-out foods you could subject me to. I prefer spicy foods, although my tolerance for spicy is nothing to boast on. As a Nutritionist I often have to curb my talk about food on dates, as sometimes learning more about something so intimate can ruin the essence of it. I make dinner dates a nightmare, and I'm aware of this. I can't help it.
Romance: Whether in a form of book or a tangible reality, my brain always needs to fulfill my inner romantic.
Smiles: Being able to see positivity despite foul circumstances is a skill I cherish both in myself and others.
Sex: Not necessarily the visceral fluid exchange, but rather intimacy on some level.
Friends: Socialization is important!
Hiking Boots: White Mountains in New Hampshire know my soles
My skin is a mess. Poor genes mixed with a loathing of the sun.
- You have an in with park rangers in New England or ARE a park ranger, so I can go camping in your unscathed stomping grounds!
- You got to the end of this list and want to message me regardless of not fulfilling these requirements!
-I am interested in a specific type of casual-y sex, which I refer to as "casual dating," that which involves mental stimulation, tenuous emotional attachments, and plentiful amounts of sex positive libido satiation. Don't message me singing the song of how amazing your blowjobs are. I need to fuck your mind before I can fuck your body.
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