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36 M Lawrence, KS

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:59pm
Native American, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
To my future love,

Hello! I don't know who you are, and I have no idea when we will meet.
Right now I'm looking for you high and low without much success. I'm guessing that you are looking for me as well, even though you don't know it yet. Then again maybe you are looking for me, maybe we are both just looking in the wrong places.

There have been many days in which I felt deep despair and longing for you. I'm doing my best to keep my head up and have a positive outlook, but some days are harder than others.

I am looking forward to the day sometime in the future when we can both look back at this time in our lives and smile that knowing smile that only two best friends in love can share.

I know you're out there somewhere. But it is a big world with a lot of people in it, so the chances of us meeting are vanishingly slim. That will just make what we have even more special, knowing that if not for a series of choices we both made, we never would have met.

I dream of a time when we can come home to each other and wash away the day. To have a companion and friend that is always there to lift each other's spirits and make the bad days a bit more tolerable. I can't wait to wake up with you in my arms every morning. To smell the fragrance of your hair and to feel the softness of your skin. To hold you when you are sad, and wipe away the tears and tell you that everything is going to be okay because we have each other.

Even though I haven't met you, there are a few things that I already know about you. You will be kind and witty, with a passion for something. You will want to share that passion with me, and I will want to learn all about it from you. You will have had your fill of asshole men, and you will be ready to try someone different.

Things will never be perfect, and we will have to work at keeping each other happy. Some days will be better than others; that's just the way of the world.

But through it all we will have each other, and that's all I can really ask for.

Until that day I will keep searching with hope in my heart that you are out there somewhere.

I hope to meet you soon. Until then I'm just going to keep being me and having as much fun as possible.

Yours truly, Jeremiah J.
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time and trying to keep a good work/life balance. I am always reading and learning; I have an insatiable curiosity about the world around me.

Looking for the right lady to settle down with. I wouldn't mind having children, though I do worry about the future they are going to inhabit.

Writing silly stories in the hope that someone will find them good enough to pay me to write more.
I’m really good at
Destroying a hamburger.

Quoting movies.

Playing air guitar with my Air Metal band. We're so cool you can't even hear us. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't really know how to answer this question. I like who I am so I don't ask people what the first thing they notice about me is.

I have been told that I have a nice smile and gorgeous eyes, but those are things told to me by friends and lovers, and they are more than a little biased. ;)

That's the thing about being overweight. People don't notice anything because they are too busy looking past you. To tell you the truth, I've always felt bad for people like that. Beauty fades with time, and if that's all you have going for you-- or that is all you are looking for --- then you are in for a world of pain down the road.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love the cinema. There are too many films that I adore to try and list them all here. If you love movies, then we have a lot to talk about!

I don't watch much television these days, but some of my favorite shows are:

Breaking Bad
Game of Thrones
The Prisoner
True Detective
The Shield
The Wire
Orange is the New Black
House of Cards

As for books? I've read quite a few in my life, but not nearly as many as I would like.
I do enjoy the works of Stephen King, Dan Simmons, Philip K. Dick, Hunter S. Thompson, John Krakauer, Ann Rice and Ursla K. LeGuin.

I'm a decent cook, so I'm pretty picky about where I eat out at. I will confess that I can't make a burger as tasty as the hamburgers at The Buger Stand or Dempsy's. That being said, I'm not a food snob as much as I just prefer to make my own food at home. I'm weird like that I guess.

Music? I like music. All sorts. I just don't hold very strong opinions on music. If I can bob my head or shake my booty to it, I'm good.
The six things I could never do without
Other than obvious things like Air, heat, water and shelter? Hmmm...

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Science and the future of our world.
I spend too much time thinking about climate change and how it will impact not just my little corner of the earth, but how terrible it could be for humans everywhere. I spend a lot of time worryining whether or not there will be an inhabitable world for future generations to enjoy and prosper in.
On a typical Friday night I am
Most of my Fridays are spent by myself writing, reading and watching movies. Or working. SAVE ME!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I were to have a "type" it would be someone that wears glasses and likes to get nerdy on a Friday night. Or any other night, actually.

I have a horrible addiction to romantic comedies. The worse they are, the more compelled I am to watch it. I have no idea why.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel like there is nothing wrong with a lady making the first move. You are independent but can make time to get out and have some fun.

I will write to those that I find interesting, but I hate playing "the numbers game" so I don't write to many ladies. Mostly I don't feel that I stand out enough in a sea of messages. I'm not very smooth or suave, I tend to just be honest, earnest and forthwright. I'm not here to play games or be a player. I'm here looking for something real and lasting, so if that sounds good to you too, don't be afraid to stop and say hello.

Also, if you have a passion for cinema. That rockets you to the top of the list. :)

You want to actually meet. This site is primarily for single adults to meet up and date. I had a pen-pal in grade school, so I've pretty much hit my quota on distant correspondence, and I can't buy your profile picture dinner. :)

Friends are great, but I'm looking for something more. If we meet and get along like gangbusters but there isn't any chemistry between us, then friends is more than fine with me. I have plenty of room in my life for awesome people. :)