Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a student, a mathematician and an all-purpose nerd. I enjoy my
subject, scifi, comic books, board- & video games and think
it's brilliant that this site lists C++ in its languages
I'm also into the goth, burlesque and bdsm/fetish scenes, and can
often be found in the various events that cater for such across
Coventry and Birmingham.
I'm in a committed albeit polyamorous relationship, and am here
looking for both new friends and maybe new partners if the right
person comes along. Obviously, the latter can only happen if you're
open to at least trying polyamory as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A PhD in applied maths at the University of Warwick is definitely
my single biggest time sink. Otherwise I spend a lot of my time on
Steam, watching classic films and drinking coffee. I'm a big fan of
good food and drink, real ale in particular, although haven't found
the time and inclination to do as much toward them as I should like
recently. I'm into all kinds of puzzles, my favourite being
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My degree, frankly. I'm pretty good at maths & sciences more
generally too, as well as games and puzzles. I have an award for
"best painted army" from a wargaming tournament (although
admittedly not a very large one) so I'm at least competent at that,
and I'm getting pretty decent at whip cracking. I brew my own ale
and make an excellent cup of coffee.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My ponytail, which is getting quite long. Or my hair in general, if
it doesn't happen to be bound. Shortly followed by my fondness of
puns and an air of cynicism, at least if I'm on form.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've got quite a few I could name for each category (it seems
everyone does), but I think this shortlist is representative.
Book - Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka
Movie - Pi by Darren Aronofsky
Show (TV) - Twin Peaks by David Lynch
Show (play, musical etc.) - St. Joan of the Stockyards by Bertolt
Music - S&M by Metallica
Food - Spicy. Turkish and Mexican especially.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, mathematics, a computer...
...I could probably make do without much else, if I had to. Can I
say those twice? Oh, the computer has to come with an internet
connection, so that'll be number seven.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My girlfriend often asks me what I'm thinking, and I hate the
question because it always makes my mind go blank. I'll reply with
When it comes to Youtube links, my memory is pretty much eidetic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a pub, a cinema, a friend's house, or most frequently at home.
Often with a laptop and a glass of wine. I don't lead a very hectic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm into BDSM. It hasn't been a part of all of my previous
relationships and doesn't have to enter into all of my future ones,
but I do have a certain fondness of submissive or masochistic
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We have something in common, or you think at least one of us might
be interesting. That's probably enough for a good start. And you
either want to be just friends, or have noticed the part about
polyamory at the start.
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