Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Firstly, no ex wife drama please.
I value honesty and integrity above all else.
Pls read: I am not looking to hop into bed with anyone or to be
rushed into a relationship. Jumping from one relationship into
another like it's some sort of trial and error got old real quick
and does not appeal to me at all. I am looking for a special person
and for that special person to find me. I am looking for someone I
can respect, admire and at the very basic, someone I like and enjoy
as a human being. I understand it takes time to know someone well
and it requires patience. So the best way to go about doing this is
for you and me to be friends first. I am picky who I let into my
life. If I like you enough to want to hang out with you, then you
may become a friend. Then from a friend, we see where it goes. I
would like it to be organic and anything that's worth growing will
need time to do so.
Also, I am busy with school and with my kid so I need someone to
understand that my schedule won't allow for a lot of time to date.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life has flipped around completely recently. I gave up on my old
life and crossed an entire ocean to give it a re-boot. If life is a
journey, I am definitely embarking on it. I am searching for
something.... meaning, love, myself..... I'm not sure what but I
knew that I needed to do what I did. "Follow your heart" is
something I think more people should do.
Back to school at PSU and it keeps me very busy and I love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
.......calling your bluff, seeing through your BS.
......seeing both sides to every story. Empathizing with people. I
consider myself a Jill of all trades. I can cook, bake, has really
good and discerning taste for all things. How true are these, you
......blending in. I am a chameleon and kinda adapt to my
surroundings and the mix of people I hang out with. I feel at home
in London, fancy myself some sort of a mix breed, could see myself
living in Paris and equally comfortable in Cambodia. I can eat at a
food cart or dress up for fine dining. I can enjoy a slapstick ala
The Dictator or savour a day at Musee du Louvre.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The following are what people have used to describe me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A recovering TV addict.
I try to read more but never as much as I would like to. Favourite
books at the top of my head:
1. The Hobbit and LOTR trilogy
2. James Herriot and his animals series
3. Harry Potter Series
4. Memoirs of a Geisha
5. A History of love - Nicole Krauss
6. The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
7. The Help - Kathryn Stockett
8. Norwegian Wood -Haruki Murakami
9. Flowers for Algernon - Daniel Keyes
10. Homer's odessey. ( about the blind cat not the Greek
11. Bill Granger & Donna Hay cookbooks
Thinks that Twilight & 50 shades sagas are literary
Last read: my textbooks
Reading: The wind-up bird chronicle
Movies...too many to name but I generally enjoy funny heist movies
like Lock, Stock and 2 Smoking barrels, Oceans 11...
Also romantic movies like Before sunset, After sunrise, Midnight in
Indies like Memento, Billy Elliot, Little Miss Sunshine, Juno,
Movies made from Jane Austen novels: Pride and Prejudice, Emma,
Sense and sensibility....
Others like Inception, Blood Diamond...
Classics: Gone with the Wind, Sound of Music...
NEVER horror and always heartwarmers over tearjerkers.
All Time Favorite: Love Actually. I never tire of watching
Music: Varied. ROCK, Pop, R&B, Jazz, Classical, Instrumental,
You'll likely think I have horrible taste in music. It's up to you
to introduce and convert me.
Definitely a foodie. Don't waste calories on mediocre food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sunblock. Yes I take care of myself.
3. Sense of humor
4. Sense of curiosity
hmmm what else....why do all begin with the letter 'S'? Trying to
think of 1 more ;)
But seriously, besides our basic needs, is there really anything we
can't live without?
So let me rephrase and put down 3 things I would need for my life
to be complete.
1. Love (friends, family)
2. Laughter (from humour and not taking things too seriously)
3. Passion (for my job, for life and with the special person)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What does love really mean? Why are there millions of lonely souls
seeking it to no avail?
Why are people here (I don't mean okc) so flaky?
The universe, the Cosmo and how small we all are.
How I get about an average of only 1 solid message every 2 weeks.
My opening paragraph must be a wonderful deterent and filter.
That said, you should message me if you're interested because I
hardly ever message first.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
up for anything interesting or I am just staying in and having a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
And that isn't my real age. Sorry. Had to change that because some
people are ageist and I just want to be caught in the wider net.
Ask and you will be told. I do look like my pics though so I've
There will always be a little girl in me despite my age. I giggle
and laugh a lot. I feel like a dork most of the time. People notice
my grace and sensuality which I don't see.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an introvert like me but likes to laugh and have fun and is
up for an adventure whenever or you can be an extrovert who has
already mellowed and appreciates quiet time. As you can see, I like
You are a great, single dad who's looking for a partner to share
your life and family with and who doesn't mind sharing mine.
You are looking for a long term relationship with a good woman who
has a lot to offer and isn't afraid to put effort into a good
You should preferably be MATURE, intelligent, has depth, well
travelled, well educated, kind, witty, playful, enjoy deep
meaningful conversations, nonjudgmental, good looking..........
haha.... i better stop here or no one would message me at all
Thanks for making it to the end. As you can see, I am wordy and if
you think you can get away with a one-liner, have no pictures and a
short profile, think again. It's my one pet peeve on this site,
people who contact me without reading my profile first duh!
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