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Jermainej

34 Singapore, Singapore Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
WARNING: This is going to be an essay. So pour yourself a glass of wine and enjoy reading.

I try to live by this mantra:
"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place." - Kurt Vonnegut

^ As you can see, I am an idealistic dreamer.

I am a walking contradiction. A ball of dynamite but I can be meek and soft too. I am feisty but I prefer a man who can take the lead.

A born and bred city gal who loves to be in the country. Nature heals and I would love to be much closer to it. I feel my best when close to hills, valleys, lakes, mountains.

Shy and reserved on the outside, underneath is someone who is playful, cheeky, loves to tease, witty, loves to laugh and naughty! That's how I know if we have chemistry because you are able to bring that side out of me.

I would like someone who can see my qualities, challenge me (but not push) to be a better person and bring me out of my box. Essentially I am an extroverted introvert.

As a passionate person, my emotions are rich and powerful. Therefore if you don't like to handle someone with feelings, then I am not for you. But don't worry, I am very reasonable and stable and do not go crazy....well...not often anyways ;P Please also be able to express yourself well, have a personality and not be a doormat.

Right now, I am at some cross-roads but I am always open to love. I am a hopeless romantic and if my life partner comes knocking, I won't close the door. So I am open to any form of relationship. Short or long-term, short or long-distanced. But most importantly, it has to be real. I want a REAL relationship with honest communication.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on a big project and also a backup plan at the same time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
......seeing both sides to every story. Empathizing with people. I consider myself a Jill of all trades. I can cook, bake, has really good and discerning taste for all things. How true are these, you decide.

......blending in. I am a chameleon and kinda adapt to my surroundings and the mix of people I hang out with. I feel at home in London, fancy myself half-Californian, could see myself living in Paris and equally comfortable in Cambodia. I can eat at a hawker center or dress up for fine dining. I can enjoy a slapstick ala The Dictator or savour a day at Musee du Louvre.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The following are what people have used to describe me.
- quirky
- passionate
- spirited/sparky
- curious
- intense
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A recovering TV addict.

I try to read more but never as much as I would like to. Favourite books at the top of my head:

1. The Hobbit and LOTR trilogy
2. James Herriot and his animals series
3. Harry Potter Series
4. Memoirs of a Geisha
5. A History of love - Nicole Krauss
6. The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
7. The Help - Kathryn Stockett
8. Norwegian Wood -Haruki Murakami
9. Flowers for Algernon - Daniel Keyes
10. Homer's odessey. ( about the blind cat not the Greek tragedy)
11. Bill Granger & Donna Hay cookbooks

Thinks that Twilight & 50 shades sagas are literary trash.

Last read: Kafka on he Shore (re-read)
Reading: Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance

Movies...too many to name but I generally enjoy funny heist movies like Lock, Stock and 2 Smoking barrels, Oceans 11...
Also romantic movies like Before sunset, After sunrise, Midnight in Paris...
Indies like Memento, Billy Elliot, Little Miss Sunshine, Juno, Sideways...
Movies made from Jane Austen novels: Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Sense and sensibility....
Others like Inception, Blood Diamond...
Classics: Gone with the Wind, Sound of Music...
NEVER horror and always heartwarmers over tearjerkers.
All Time Favorite: Love Actually. I never tire of watching this.

Music: Varied. ROCK, Pop, R&B, Jazz, Classical, Instrumental, Musicals...
Vocalist I would surely listen to: Adele, Noral Jones, Michael Buble, Sarah Mclachlan, Cole Porter.

Definitely a foodie. Don't waste calories on mediocre food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sunblock. Yes I take care of myself.
2. Serenity
3. Sense of humor
4. Sense of curiosity
5. Smoochies

hmmm what else....why do all begin with the letter 'S'? Trying to think of 1 more ;)

But seriously, besides our basic needs, is there really anything we can't live without?

So let me rephrase and put down 3 things I would need for my life to be complete.

1. Love (friends, family)
2. Laughter (from humour and not taking things too seriously)
3. Passion (for my job, for life and with the special person)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is there such a thing as soul-mates? How do you define it? Will I get to meet mine in this life time?

Will l ever find someone who can meet me in all 3 ways, mentally, emotionally and physically? It's worse than a needle in a haystack but anything less wouldn't work, I think.

Why so many people with high match scores and interesting profiles are all thousand of miles away.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wishing I was attending a rock concert, visiting a musuem, snow skiing, watching a play, at a vineyard, cuddling up with you....

But I am in Sg so I'm either at home or out with friends. I prefer to be out chilling over a glass of Mojito or Lychee Martini. Or you can ask me out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never had sex in public!

And that isn't my real age. Sorry. Had to change that because some people are ageist and I just want to be caught in the wider net. Ask and you will be told.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are ENFJ/ENFP as we are supposed to be a good match and I would really like to test this theory out. I would be interested to meet all intuitives ...and I find myself really drawn to the NTs so if you are INTJ, INTP, ENTP, message me! I am INFJ btw.

OR

IF you have no idea what those 4 letters mean but you are MATURE, intelligent, has depth, well travelled, well educated, kind, witty, playful, enjoy meaningful conversations, nonjudgmental, good looking.......... haha.... i better stop here or no one would message me at all ;P

OR

You no longer feel the need to prove yourself to anyone because you are sure/confident of who you are. You're either going after your goals or you feel like you've been there and done that and not just any woman would do. You want someone worthy of you for long term partnership but understand that I am still evolving and finding my way at the moment and you have to be patient and willing to walk the road with me too.

AND

You like CUTE, adorable, girly sexy- yes I giggle much and laugh loudly (gorgeous, sensual, stunning I am NOT)
Not always sugar and spice but with a healthy dose of feistiness, is spirited who enjoys a good discussion, has a naughty streak, who might appear unyielding but wants to be yielded.

Thanks for making it to the end. As you can see, I am wordy and if you think you can get away with a one-liner, have no pictures and a short profile, think again. It's my one pet peeve on this site, people who contact me without reading my profile first duh!

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