I am a disabled veteran, and yes I am still in one piece. I have scars both physical and mental and I do not hide that. If that is too much for you I wish you well. I am still able bodied and am quite active when I can be, life is too short to sit idle while it passes by. I am a very to the point person and do not hide behind excuses. I don't make excuses, but I do make mistakes. I have high expectations and I do not settle, and neither should you. I am a big man I stand 6'2" and have a 36-38 inch waist. I am looking for a long term relationship that may one day lead to marriage again, but not in the near future. If this is a problem then please move on. I am analytical but have a sense of humor. I have a high stamina level. I offer respect, understanding, and compassion unconditionally.
I am a father of three and grandfather of three, and they come first in my life. I share custody of my youngest with his mother. I do not communicate with her unless it relates to our children. I am a big man with a big heart. I had it crushed and I am not interested in having that done again anytime soon. I like to cook even though I prefer to eat out as well. I like to go to amusement parks, swim, ride my trike, go to the movies, or watch them at home on the big screen. I even find time to play World of Warcraft with my son, sometimes. I am not too good at it, but I try, we should always try new things.
A woman not afraid to work at a relationship. A woman willing to be understanding and patient. A woman who wants to be healthy. A woman who takes care of herself, that does not mean a ton of perfume and make-up. A woman that looks and feels good to me, not anyone else. A woman that feels good in my arms and wants to hold my hand for long walks. A woman who wants to be loved by a good man. A woman that can be comfortable in jeans and flip flops, and also happy to go out in a nice dress. A woman looking to be the other half of a great couple.
I do not care to be with a woman bigger in size than I am. If that seems rude, then you need to understand I spent 24 years trying to make it work with one. Judge me if you wish, but I do not care to spend the next 24 the same way. It is said that the perfect body is 36-24-36 put those measurements on a woman and you have a beautiful thing. I think it is fine to be a few measurements larger but that is about all. A woman who can carry her weight well is a very beautiful thing, curves are very sexy in moderation. In moderation.....