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33 • Marietta, GA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Jan 11
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Christianity, and very serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
I am looking for someone who is a leader--not a follower...obviously; someone who is striving to become more like Jesus every day; can make me laugh incessantly; loves deep conversation; isn't afraid to stand up for what is right and go against the popular opinion; desires to be a father who will guide His children according to God's word. Amen? Amen! That's all could think up for now lol.
Oh yeah...I don't really enjoy small talk, so don't expect much in return when your message says "hi" or "how are you." I'll make it easy for you. Here are my answers: hi...good :-) Next question! Also, I appreciate all the out of town attention, but I should tell you up front, I think long distance relationships are frustrating and I'd rather not do them. I have zero interest in relocating or traveling by plane or long drive to come see you. If you're willing, then we can discuss it if things progress, but I just want you to know my position. Oh! Another thing. Please don't be offended if I don't want to give you my number when you ask for it. It's not you, it's me LOL. Seriously though, I'm not on here playing games or wasting time. My time is precious and limited and I do not wish to spend it talking to a dozen guys every night. Please be patient and allow me to decide if I would like to take our conversation offline in my own time. Thaaaanks :-)
I'm currently writing a novel, and I'm working feverishly (for the most part lol) to have it completed by the end of the summer so it can be published by the end of the year. If you're interested you can check out what's going on at www.gofundme.com/Jess1stBook. <--totally shameless plug...I know! LOL
I'm also trying further my knowledge of video editing, but my book has taken precedence right now.
Let's see...you might notice that I tend to be a bit animated when I speak, and I use my hands...a lot! I've gotta have some Italian somewhere along the line. I am a very passionate speaker. Between the hands flailing and the intense inflections in my voice (I'm not yelling...I'm from NY lol), people usually think that I am very extroverted, but I am SO not.
People also comment on my voice. They say I have a smooth jazz radio voice.
They also tend to notice how good of a listener I am. I think that's one reason people are drawn to me so quickly.
Now, one thing that I would think people would notice first but discover much later is how light my eyes are.
Food: Asian-style, Italian...and everything else that is chock full of carbs lol.
Music: Christian (i.e. Fred Hammond, Royal Tailor, Chris Tomlin, Lecrae, Chris August, Mary Mary, tobyMac....), jazz, some pop, classical
Books: Bible, The Five Love Languages, Crazy Love, The Magic of Thinking Big, God: The Way He Longs For You to See Him, It Came From Within
TV: Downton Abbey, Scandal, The Voice, Kitchen Nightmares, Jeopardy
Movies: mysteries, action, old dramas and suspense movies...from the 40s, 50s, and 60s, Shutter Island, The Blind Side, The Truman Show, Clara's Heart, LOTR trilogy, anything from Marvel Studios, Daddy's Little Girls, Taken, Corrina, Corrina, Clara's Heart, What About Bob
My favorite color is orange...in case anyone wanted to know.
3. A good blue pen
4. Time to myself
5. Gum (spearmint or peppermint)
6. Good music
The future: what life will be like as a wife, mother, author, etc.
Things to write about.
Places I want to visit.
Friends and family.
What I'm going to eat lol.
P.S. I can't dance. I wish I could, but I can't. It's really sad. You probably don't want to take anywhere that involves dancing lol.
I know this sounds harsh, but a lot of you made me go there. For those who are keen on following instructions, still think I'm interesting, and fit the criteria, I look forward to hearing from you!
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