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33 Marietta, GA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 11
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello! Thanks for stopping by. I can be a bit of a nut sometimes--in a fun kind of way. At the same token I can be very serious. I love love LOVE to laugh. Most of the time people say I'm funny when I'm not trying to be. Some people say I have dry humor. I am definitely sarcastic though. I love Jesus and am striving to be more like Him. I think I'm a good friend--at least they've kept me around for a while lol. I tend to be a caring person, and I love the people I am close with very much. I not your run of the mill follower. I don't drink the kool-aid. I find it hard to just accept whatever society thrusts in my face. I'm not afraid to stand up for what is right. I believe that honesty really is the best policy. I'm a pretty easy going gal. I don't do drama--I run from it. Ain't nobody got time fo dat! LOL I'm very non-confrontational. Sometimes to a fault, but I'm working on it. I tend to be an introvert although oftentimes I appear to be outgoing. I enjoy my own company as much as I enjoy the company of others. Overall, I think I'm pretty darn awesome ;-) I do not have children. I like to do a lot of things from just hanging with my friends to going to the orchestra. I like to travel although I don't do it as much as I would like. I enjoy cooking although I don't cook nearly as much as I should. I like trying to make gourmet meals. I like being outside, although I'm not the adventurous go climb a mountain type. However, white water rafting is on my list of things to do.

I am looking for someone who is a leader--not a follower...obviously; someone who is striving to become more like Jesus every day; can make me laugh incessantly; loves deep conversation; isn't afraid to stand up for what is right and go against the popular opinion; desires to be a father who will guide His children according to God's word. Amen? Amen! That's all could think up for now lol.

Oh yeah...I don't really enjoy small talk, so don't expect much in return when your message says "hi" or "how are you." I'll make it easy for you. Here are my answers: hi...good :-) Next question! Also, I appreciate all the out of town attention, but I should tell you up front, I think long distance relationships are frustrating and I'd rather not do them. I have zero interest in relocating or traveling by plane or long drive to come see you. If you're willing, then we can discuss it if things progress, but I just want you to know my position. Oh! Another thing. Please don't be offended if I don't want to give you my number when you ask for it. It's not you, it's me LOL. Seriously though, I'm not on here playing games or wasting time. My time is precious and limited and I do not wish to spend it talking to a dozen guys every night. Please be patient and allow me to decide if I would like to take our conversation offline in my own time. Thaaaanks :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time as an instructional designer. It's a fairly new field for me, so I spend a lot of time reading up and watching tutorials. But, basically, I'm in charge of designing training for my organization whether it be live, in-person sessions, eLearning, or a how-to video.

I'm currently writing a novel, and I'm working feverishly (for the most part lol) to have it completed by the end of the summer so it can be published by the end of the year. If you're interested you can check out what's going on at <--totally shameless plug...I know! LOL

I'm also trying further my knowledge of video editing, but my book has taken precedence right now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Choosing my words wisely, listening, techie things, baking Red Velvet cakes, relating to people, giving excellent clues in Taboo, remembering names, being a good friend, telling stories, paying attention to detail, I have a really good sense of direction (I'm never lost; I go on "adventures" until I see something familiar LOL)
The first things people usually notice about me
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You one has ever told me that! If you and I meet in real life, please make sure you tell me.

Let's might notice that I tend to be a bit animated when I speak, and I use my hands...a lot! I've gotta have some Italian somewhere along the line. I am a very passionate speaker. Between the hands flailing and the intense inflections in my voice (I'm not yelling...I'm from NY lol), people usually think that I am very extroverted, but I am SO not.

People also comment on my voice. They say I have a smooth jazz radio voice.

They also tend to notice how good of a listener I am. I think that's one reason people are drawn to me so quickly.

Now, one thing that I would think people would notice first but discover much later is how light my eyes are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It's very hard for me to pick a favorite anything. So here are a few of my favorite things:

Food: Asian-style, Italian...and everything else that is chock full of carbs lol.

Music: Christian (i.e. Fred Hammond, Royal Tailor, Chris Tomlin, Lecrae, Chris August, Mary Mary, tobyMac....), jazz, some pop, classical

Books: Bible, The Five Love Languages, Crazy Love, The Magic of Thinking Big, God: The Way He Longs For You to See Him, It Came From Within

TV: Downton Abbey, Scandal, The Voice, Kitchen Nightmares, Jeopardy

Movies: mysteries, action, old dramas and suspense movies...from the 40s, 50s, and 60s, Shutter Island, The Blind Side, The Truman Show, Clara's Heart, LOTR trilogy, anything from Marvel Studios, Daddy's Little Girls, Taken, Corrina, Corrina, Clara's Heart, What About Bob

My favorite color is case anyone wanted to know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A relationship with Jesus
2. Internet
3. A good blue pen
4. Time to myself
5. Gum (spearmint or peppermint)
6. Good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How God is so desperately in love with me despite what I do. WOW!

The future: what life will be like as a wife, mother, author, etc.

Things to write about.

Places I want to visit.

Friends and family.

What I'm going to eat lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I'm pretty simple and I hang with friends, go out to eat, and/or catch a movie. I also like different things like going to see an orchestra or the theater.

P.S. I can't dance. I wish I could, but I can't. It's really sad. You probably don't want to take anywhere that involves dancing lol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually do not like watermelon or hot sauce. Some people say I should remit my black card lol.
You should message me if
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I've been getting some REALLY crazy messages lately. Some of you are not following instructions. I only want to talk to men who love Jesus for real, love good conversion, laughter, knows where he's going in life, is serious about finding that special someone and is looking to be in a long-term relationship. Don't send me a message because you're up late and you're bored--or horny (especially when you don't even live in this country). Don't message me looking for a fling. Don't contact me and try and make more do all the work by carrying the conversation. You want to know ME, remember? Don't ask for my number because YOU are tired of chatting online. I will give you my number when I decide I want to know you better. Don't ask to meet me after like three messages. The answer will be no.
I know this sounds harsh, but a lot of you made me go there. For those who are keen on following instructions, still think I'm interesting, and fit the criteria, I look forward to hearing from you!