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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:40pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a good o'l, city owned, home grown, angsty souled, twenty-somethin', bourbon lovin' guy. Honesty is more important to me than appearances. I'd rather hang out with someone who admitted to hating me than someone who made me feel like they enjoyed me even though they didn't. Intelligence, Wit, Passion, and Calmness are the most interesting things to me in a guy. I only ask that you be interesting, which may not be necessarily as obvious as one would think. I'm a night owl. Without my apathy my angst would be crippling. Without my angst my apathy would be paralyzing. I is arent a good speler (I'm sorry what I mean to say is "I am not a well speller"). I value creation highly. I am very wry. INTJ. I'm a definer by nature with a knack for divergent thought. I have child bearing hips and with a slow masculine walk. I'd stab you for a cookie without blinking. I take my coffee black. I don't smoke but am quick with a light. I have the curated personality of a fat girl and the evaluative skills of an aging matriarch. I consider any moment on a porch/balcony/rooftop a vacation. I get along with guys who are defined by the majority of their passions; not the minority of their sexual orientation. I enjoy feeling lost especially when I don't know what I'm looking to find. I'm just like a monkey named George or just like when Voldemort's wand chose Harry Potter, I'm curious... very curious. I'm not exactly sure how this online dating thing works. I'm actually probably not sure how dating works in general.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write songs. Music Industry oriented. I have my BA in Music. I have a book of poetry being published this year. (follow me as an instapoet on IG:JessAdamsGrams) I lived in NYC and toured for the past 5 years as a performer then decided I needed to write which has lead me back to school at Berklee and consequently Boston for a little bit. I don't have much free time but when I do I usually write dating profiles about myself.
I’m really good at
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Puns/ Wordplay. Making metaphors and analogies. Listening. Debating. Distracting. Music. Writing. Staying calm. Maggie Smithing it. Problem solving. Laughing. Being in my head. Not falling asleep on time and not waking up on time.

Video games, telling you everything is going to work out fine, separating my work and my life, answering or talking on the phone, not losing my wallet, Being sexual when it's over 70 degrees.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Green Eyes.
My beard
My propensity for wearing hoodies.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Where the Sidewalk Ends, The Adventures Of Huckleberry Finn, Red by John Logan, A Prosody Handbook, A Brief History of time, The Grand Design, The Universe in a Nutshell, The Last Time As We Are, Lyrics and Poems by John K. Samson, Harry Potter, The fountainhead. I honestly don't read a lot of fiction. I'm an articles and text book kinda guy especially when I'm not in school.

MOIVES: Girl Interrupted, Midnight in Paris, The Color Purple, Mrs. Henderson Presents, Up, Step Brothers, Inglorious Bastards, Any Christmas movie that doesn't appear on Lifetime.

SHOWS: The Blacklist, Once Upon A Time, Sherlock, New Girl, TED Talks, Adventure Time, Broad City, Game Of Thrones, Real Time with Bill Maher, House of Cards

MUSIC: Vance Joy, John Fullbright, Avicii, Daughter, Lorde, Allen Stone, Fun., Ed Sheeran, Hugh Laurie, Delta Rae, Amos Lee, Leonard Cohen, Amy Winehouse, The Alabama Shakes, Tony Lucca, Andy grammer, Macklemore, Sarah Bareilles, ZZ Ward, The Marshall Tucker Band, The Band, Passanger, Frank Turner, The Lumineers, The Civil Wars, Mika, Kate Nash, Andrew Duhon, Ray Charles, Al green, Ottis Redding, Ernie Halter, John Legend, Mofro, Mumford and Sons, Ray LaMontagne, Adele, Eric Hutchinson, Elton John, P!nk, Old Crow Medicine Show, Bruno Mars, Hozier, Gin Wigmore Acoustic Lady Gaga, Jay brannan, Ani DiFranco, Emeli Sandé, Jason Isbell

FOOD: I'll eat anything as long as I don't have to cook it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Alone time.
A sense of angst.
Sparkling water.
My Typewriter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it means to be alive.
Why anyone would design a washer machine for a laundromat that didn't have a timer on it.
If I'm a bad dancer who dances more than he should or a very good dancer who doesn't really dance at all.
The most economic/clever way to say something.
The discrepancy between the social acceptance of a furry animal and the the social acceptance of a furry human.
What chord progression is the song I'm listening to.
How the word 'timeless' actually should be 'timeful' as it doesn't mean existing outside of reality but actually being so relevant that its relevance spans a whole bunch of time (and similar thoughts).
What makes things I like/hate the things I like/hate.
how many consumers really find the perfect place for those half circle shaped couches.
If being lost can feel like home.
Whats next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
writin' ditties and suckin' titties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once killed a man. He did not enjoy that one bit.

Once, after losing custody of my children to my Ex-wife, I posed as a Old Scottish Nanny so I could see my children more than just once a week. I had my brother give me a total makeover which included, but was not limited to, fake boobs, grey wig and prosthetic face. Hijinks ensued (boy did they ever!) but, in the end, I learned a lot about what it means to love and what it means to be a parent.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to. I'll do the same. Then, at least, we'll have that one thing in common.

Alright let me get serious for a moment.

I've sort of reached a breaking point or turning point, I don't know which really, but I'm at some type of point where I'm trying not to want much. I've spent so much time in NYC where everyone had to have this kind of shoe or this type of shirt or go to this club or have an apartment in this area and it was honestly just exhausting. I just couldn't stay connected to my work or myself or my relationships while wrapping things up in the prettiest bow i could buy. I recently threw out most of my things. I don't want to play house anymore. I don't want to take trips to ikea (I mean I do... but i fight the urge). I just wanna be a man in a room with his craft. I want to hang out with passionate people on shitty porches and take walks on cracked side walks. I want my collaborators to be like family. I want to name the mice. I want to think being able to buy bourbon nicer than Evan Williams means life is fantastic. I want to dig deeper when it's uncomfortable. I don't want an urban version of the movie Revolutionary Road. Where our plastic lives just looks different from suburban plastic cause ours are "awesome" and filled with mimosas, Ray Bands and Groupon. I don't say this because I think you should change how you live. I say this because it might make you think twice about if you really think we would get along and you deserve to be able to make that informed decision. We should both be happy. It's just that it may mean us being happy and respecting each other separately. It may mean we would be awesome friends and impossible lovers. or perhaps we would be better suited for civil war style pen pals. Who knows! All I do know is, I intend to live a gritty uncomfortable life and I don't think I want that to change anytime soon. Okay, Cupid, ::mic drop::