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JessHarris586

28 Columbus, GA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 14, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sweet, kind, understanding, ambitious, generous, and laid back... is that me? Of course that's me!!! Hey all, I'm Jessica, or Jess if you want! I'm pretty shy when meeting new ppl, but I definitely open up more when I get to know them better. I am all about "chill-axing". I love to have fun and finding new ways to do so. I am hard-working and never quit what I do until I complete it. I am the kind of person who is always there when needed and loves helping others. I totally love music. Into anything w/ a great beat. I love to dance!!! I absolutely love Linkin Park, Rascal Flatts, and Bon Jovi.

I'm orginally from Jersey, now down in Columbus, GA. Yes, I still have my Jersey accent. I was brought down here by my father's job w/ AFLAC, and yes I do watch the show "Jersey Shore", even though I hate admitting it. I've been down here permanently since May 2009.

I'm not too big into the bar and club scene. I rarely drink and do not really find the need to get drunk. I'm still getting to learn Columbus, so I do not know where everything is down here. I spend a lot of time playing games online, especially ones that really make me think and keep my brain active. I'm not too much for the outdoors, I have always hated the heat. But I love going to the beach and going for walks. I also love to bowl, play baseball, listen to music and dance. I am always open to trying new things. The next thing I would love to do is skydiving. I would love to experience that rush you get from jumping out of a plane thousands of feet in the air.

Haven't had too much luck finding the right guy down here, or at all for that matter. I want a guy who I can be myself with and not have to be someone I am not. Be able to have a conversation with and without getting bored. A guy who knows what he wants out of life and isn't sitting around waiting for it to happen. Someone to make me laugh and who isn't afraid to be romantic. I want the romance without it being cheesy or cliche. You don't have to buy me flowers or take me to an expensive restaurant. I am perfectly okay with just spending the evening home cuddling up on the couch and watching tv or a movie than going out. I don't need what's in your wallet, just what is in your heart. Just treat me right, and you will capture my heart.

I have been hurt one too many times. I'm not just some girl you can have a one-night stand with. I'm not that kind of girl. I know what I want in a guy so I DON'T PLAY GAMES!!!

Think you have what it takes to be my man?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a college graduate with my B.A. in sociology. I am currently working on my Master's degree in Community Counseling at CSU. I hope to one day become a Marriage and Family Therapist.
I'm unfortunately unemployed at the moment (just figured I'd be honest here). But i'm looking for work everyday while going to school full time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. I do have the ability to make someone, who is in a rotten mood, and make them laugh :D
Making people feel special
Being an awesome friend. I am always there for my friends. I'll do anything for my friends.

I'm good at massages. Kissing. I'd say more, but that would ruin the mystery ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and my smile. I have been told that my big brown eyes are seductive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not much of a reader. And I completely blame my 4th grade teacher for that. But I do have a monthly subscription to Cosomopolitian. It's like my female bible.

I love comedies, romance, drama, "chick flicks", action. My fav actor is Jim Carrey, so I'll see almost any movie with him in it. The same goes for Adam Sandler as well.

Will & Grace, Forensic Files, Boy Meets World, Jepoardy, Wheel of Fortune, House Hunters, Ghost Hunters, Ghost Adventures, Man v. Food. Other misc. shows on the channels of: Lifetime, TBS, truTV, ID (investigation discovery), HGTV, Travel Channel, Animal Planet (especially ones about cats because I LOVE cats)

I totally love music. I'm into nearly anything with a great beat. I love to dance!!! I absolutely love Linkin Park, Rascal Flatts, and Bon Jovi. I'm into oldies, music from the 80s and 90s, hip hop, r&b, some pop, some country.

Favorite food is Italian. I also like bbq, cheese, fried food, chocolate, steak...and the list can go on and on. I can't stand coconut, bananas, or really anything really spicy nor sour. I'm also not into anything greasy, has onions, and I don't really like pickles. I will make mention that I also don't like red peppers... not so much because of the taste, but I am allergic!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell phone (my phone is always with me, and i do A LOT of texting)
Friends/Family (i don't know what i'd do without them)
Lip balm (gotta keep my lips nice and moist ;)
Music (i love to dance)
My car (2004 red hyundai accent)
CHOCOLATE (I definitely have to say that I cannot live without chocolate. For my new years resolution, I tried to limit myself to eating the good stuff once a week. When that failed, I tried a few times a week. When that failed, I tried once a day. Needless to say, I failed at once a day. I'm a chocoholic.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am doing with my life now and how it will impact my future. My future is everything to me, so I spend too much time anxiously thinking about my future.

If I'll ever find the right guy. Thought I did a few times, but they just ended up breaking my heart.

I spend some time thinking about why guys ignore the messages that I actually get the courage to send. Seriously dude, it's so rude to be ignored!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at home with family or out with friends.

Maybe I'm on a date with a very lucky guy... :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm DEATHLY afraid of spiders!!! But that's because I am allergic to them :(

There are lots of private things about me. If I admit them on here, they won't be private anymore.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to find the girl with a good heart and knows how to treat a man right. Who is also an awesome chick who is fun to be around and can definitely have a good time!!! If you want a girl who is needy, high maintaince, and loves to make your life a living hell with stress and drama, then DON'T send me a message. I'm not about drama or the games.

If you're looking for more than just sex. If you're looking for just sex, don't even bother wasting your time or my time by sending me a message.

If I send you a message and you're not interested in me, instead of completely ignoring me, I'd appreciate it if you could simply say "not interested" or something to that effect. It's so rude to be completely ignored when I took the time to send you a message.

If you send me a message like "hi" "sup?" or "hello", or something VERY simple along those lines, it shows me that you barely read my profile and I probably will not respond back to you. At least send me a message that actually shows me that you took the time to read my profile. Thank you :)

I am not going to give out my number to a complete stranger... also, if you give me your number in the first message, please do not expect me to text you...get to know me a little before we exchange numbers :)