JessThm
30 Indian Trail, NC
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My self-summary
Hey I'm Jessica or Jess. These things are always hard to write but I'll give it a try. I'm a southern gal who wishes she was northern, don't ask me why because I don't know. I've been through a lot in my life, but I just still keep clinging to Jesus. Recently I've been hurt in relationships; lied to and cheated on. I'm tired of it, tired of ending up with all the wrong guys. I've met a few people off here, and they weren't who they said they were...nor looked like their picture.
I'm a Christian, who's not afraid to show it. I want a god fearing man, who's not gonna say "oh yea, I'm a Christian" but then doesn't act like it or falls away from Jesus the minute he starts dating me.
I just lost someone dear to me by alcholo, long story, and its still fresh. So I've seen what it does and how it effects people and such. So therefore if you go out and get tipsy/drunk often you have a very slim chance with me. Now that's different then knowing your limit and not allowing yourself to go that far or getting a little buzz every blue moon.
People always get on to me about not wanting a nonbeliever....well I'll have you as a friend and nothing more if you don't believe in Jesus, point blank. Don't get me wrong there are some nice nonbelievers out there, but i couldn't allow there to be nothing more. It's just hard on the relationship when it's like there. Trust me I've tried it a couple of times.
I just want friends for now and see where it goes, if you rush into things it doesn't work out and just becomes a disaster.
Someone asked what it's I'm looking for, well here it is; Someone to be able to take it slow to start off as friends and not rush into anything. To find someone who can last and is willing to work things out when it becomes rocky. Someone i know i can run to when i feel like i cant run to no one else. Someone who's loyal, respectful, honest, doesn't cheat, not emotionally or mentally abusive. Who's patient, caring, compassionate, romantic, and a good country christian man who knows what he wants and has a sense of humor. Who can live me for me and not try to change me. Who is easy to talk to and we just have that connection. My best friend who is for me and wants only me until the end. I wanna be someone's first choice, not second, third, etc. Have someone fight for me if they had to.
Ps I'm not here for booty calls, sex, friends with benefits, or anything like that. I wanna wait on that part.
What I’m doing with my life
Well right now I can be pretty busy. I'm a chashier at a grocery store as well as a nanny. Later on I'm hoping to get back into college for cna for kids.
I’m really good at
Listening to people and trying to make them laugh and smile. Just being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I have a good heart. My eyes and smile. That I try to be a good person
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have way to many, books I like the inspirational, romance, mystery. Movies would be chick flicks, comedy, romance, sometimes scary, true story, and what ever seems interesting. Music, mainly southern gospel, Christian, and country. Sometimes I will still listen to what I used to...pop, hip hop, and I think that's it.
The six things I could never do without
1. God and Jesus for sure. They are extremely important to me.
2. Family
3. Friends
4. Inspirational music, books, Bible.
5. Love and forgiveness
6. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, what God amd Jesus have in store for me, and anything else that pops in my head I suppose.
On a typical Friday night I am
Just getting home from working, hanging out with family and/or friends wishing I had a good Christian man to see too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't do well with fights, I really could care less for them.
You should message me if
I seem interesting, if you're a good Christian man with a good heart. I'm that one in a million, so I've heard.
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