I'm a Christian, who's not afraid to show it. I want a god fearing man, who's not gonna say "oh yea, I'm a Christian" but then doesn't act like it or falls away from Jesus the minute he starts dating me.
I just lost someone dear to me by alcholo, long story, and its still fresh. So I've seen what it does and how it effects people and such. So therefore if you go out and get tipsy/drunk often you have a very slim chance with me. Now that's different then knowing your limit and not allowing yourself to go that far or getting a little buzz every blue moon.
People always get on to me about not wanting a nonbeliever....well I'll have you as a friend and nothing more if you don't believe in Jesus, point blank. Don't get me wrong there are some nice nonbelievers out there, but i couldn't allow there to be nothing more. It's just hard on the relationship when it's like there. Trust me I've tried it a couple of times.
I just want friends for now and see where it goes, if you rush into things it doesn't work out and just becomes a disaster.
Someone asked what it's I'm looking for, well here it is; Someone to be able to take it slow to start off as friends and not rush into anything. To find someone who can last and is willing to work things out when it becomes rocky. Someone i know i can run to when i feel like i cant run to no one else. Someone who's loyal, respectful, honest, doesn't cheat, not emotionally or mentally abusive. Who's patient, caring, compassionate, romantic, and a good country christian man who knows what he wants and has a sense of humor. Who can live me for me and not try to change me. Who is easy to talk to and we just have that connection. My best friend who is for me and wants only me until the end. I wanna be someone's first choice, not second, third, etc. Have someone fight for me if they had to.
Ps I'm not here for booty calls, sex, friends with benefits, or anything like that. I wanna wait on that part.