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Jessabel_Winter

25 / F / Bisexual / Available

Redwood City, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 12
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I love intellectuals who can make a sly comment in irony about the world or a conversation. I love indulging in the human experience, meeting each other, as well as knowing and loving one another. I love and can appreciate beauty in all human beings. I enjoy conversations that are deep and non superficial. I am in depth and fluctuate between being independent and daring, and sensuously sweet and innocent. Regardless of someone's interests really it doesn't matter. My interest in life is human interaction and whatever interest is an excuse for that interaction is BEAUTIFUL!

I'm a very intelligent individual well beyond the level of my peers. This leaves me to be pretty flexible in regards to age. I have but one thing to ask : judge me by my actions, not by a number! Romance is a magical thing, not an equation.

The simplest way I would describe myself is the following:

I am Curious, with curiosity comes a desire to learn. Through that desire to learn I more effectively observe others, listening to their stories and applying their lessons to my own life. I try to expand my knowledge as much as I can. I am a person that truly is the prime example of an idealist. I know so much because I do not allow myself to ever reach a state of where I feel that knowledge from any other is above me. This has allowed me to have leadership qualities and I am easily approached by those who seek my advice.

I am Compassionate. I enjoy helping other people as best as I can. I currently volunteer for 4 Non-profit organizations; historical reenactment organizations. I volunteer with horses and educate the public on US history. I have worked at an educational ranch for the Youth and the Disabled, it was an enlightening experience in my life. I try not to let life waste away, I am a positive person that perseveres above all to be the best I can be. I try not to compare myself to others. My self-growth is the most important, everyone else's is insignificant. I cannot change anyone else, but I can inspire a person to change for the better. I think about this each day as I smile to think of all the people I have touched in a positive way.

I am Diverse. I am Native American Navajo, Arapaho, as well as German, Spanish,Portuguese, Greek, Italian, English, Mexican, Danish. I come from a culturally rich family. I realize, though, with the mixture of my cultural background that I am above all: an American. This is a free country and I love it so much. My feeling of unity toward the world has created an interest in pursuing my Major in Cultural Psychology. I love hearing of other cultures. I, with my curiosity, like to indulge in the possibility of exploring different cultural ideas. I love hearing people express their passions to me. When people are able to hear me speak I give them the opportunity to gaze into my eyes. My eyes and my soul have such depth to them, a depth that could be compared to that of the ocean as opposed to the usual man-made pool I see within others. I have a beautiful smile and the charm of an angel. If you are given the opportunity to meet me I am sure you'll agree =)

I wish you all the best in your romantic pursuits!

I am Insightful, Compassionate, and Intellectual-ENFJ
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working at a high end retail store. I pay my own bills and am an independent person that gets things done as needed. I have a busy life but try to integrate any new people I may meet along the way into it.
I’m really good at
Giving advice, being a comforting person for someone in need.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm compassionate and patient.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mind Master by Theron Dumont Intelligence: Intellectual, Moral, and Physical by Herbert Spencer Gain of personality by Charles Loosmoor, A Deadly Misunderstanding: A Congressman's Quest to Bridge the Muslim-Christian Divide by Mark Sijiander The DragonLance series by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman Books of inspiration to me and my own self-reflection are a must MY most recent read is Romancing the Shadow I am loving it so far. Game of Thrones Religio Medici by Sir Thomas Browne. History of Western Philosophy by Bertrand Russel. Various Quotes from H.P. Lovecraft

TV Shows: White Collar, The Office, The Tudors, Borgias, Big Bang Theory, Outsourced, Law and Order, NCIS

Movies: Butterfly Effect, Sunshine, Fat, Sick and Nearly dead, Fahrenheit 9/11, Bowling for Columbine, New in Town, How to Lose a Guy in 10 days, Love in the Afternoon (Audrey Hepburn movie)

Music: Maroon 5, Adam Lambert, In this Moment, Zeromancer, Rob Zombie, Peggy Lee, Marilyn Manson, Godsmack, Disturbed, Celine Dion, Tim Mcgraw, Faith Hill, (I'm warning you my music interest has a little bit of everything in and likely if you name something good I like it. I cannot even think of every band I like!)

I'm researching in my free time more into Zoroastrianism. Plutarch, Shapur 1, Anne Boleyn, Elizabeth 1, Bloody Mary, and Francis Otto Matthiessen.
The six things I could never do without
1. Reading (Especially History)
2. Socializing and engaging
3.My curiosity toward the Zoroastrian religion
4. Philosophy (John Stuart Mill, Søren Kierkegaard, etc)
5. Poetry
6. Above all, INTELLIGENT conversation =)

Other basics:
Swimming. Belly dancing, Nature, Bad minton, Dance Dance Revolution (DDR)/ In The Groove, Starcraft, Antiquarian book collection from the 1700's-1800's (I love historical texts literature as well as artifacts) and am an equestrian (horses) /marine biology (and overall animal) lover.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What best can be done in my life to make positive change in the world around me.

What TED.com lecture will I see today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, or socializing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love animals... even the ones people might find scary such as reptiles...or tarantulas. If you have a uromastyx I may become a bit excited.

I once had a reticulated python....Don't ask me how I got one.

I am absolutely inspired by Joshua Klein's lecture on the intelligence of crows on www.TED.com

If to add you to my favorites I am likely VERY interested in learning more and wanting to put great thought into putting in a good message relating to your interests/ passions while making the message upbeat and a pleasure to read. If you beat me at sending a message I will be greatly flattered!
That I find these quotes very amusing:

"But he was unmoved, and cried: "If I am mad, it is mercy! May the gods pity the man who in his callousness can remain sane to the hideous end!"

There are not many persons who know what wonders are opened to them in the stories and visions of their youth; for when as children we learn and dream, we think but half-formed thoughts, and when as men we try to remember, we are dulled and prosaic with the poison of life.

The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents. We live on a placid island of ignorance in the midst of black seas of infinity, and it was not meant that we should voyage far. The sciences, each straining in its own direction, have hitherto harmed us little; but some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the deadly light into the peace and safety of a new dark age.

"If only it were all so simple! If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?"
— Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn (The Gulag Archipelago: 1918-1956)
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
You are female and looking for a cuddle buddy. It is only through time and experience can I explore should I desire more =). For the record, as far as guys go at most I seek friendship whether as philosophy conservationists to talk about writing etc. I love writing and sharing writings. As far as women go, I am most flexible and apt to responding and engaging in conversation. It is not that men are not interesting so much as too often am I getting messages hoping to push my boundaries as far as what I am looking for. I am a person that is straight forward, and I tell people directly how I feel or what I want. If I had wanted to be with a guy from okcupid romantically I would state it in my profile. However that is not the case, nor is it the case for erotic one night stands, or friends with benefits. I am a paragraph Role Player,and am more likely to write scenarios of romance and intrigue than to enter into one in my real life. I am however am more than wiling to open myself to female explorations. I am not looking for couples to open myself to doing the both of them either. Realistically, it only leads in heart break to one or the other person so please do not mention it, as I have stated clearly my disinterest.

Also, I am looking for a new roommate, if you know anyone looking for one! =)