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Jessesam

30 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:50pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hey! Hey!

Sweet like a marmalade cat,
Warm like a cup of tea,
I'm loving and laughing,
Like the waves of the sea.

I'm a musician - singer/pianist - with a background in jazz. I'm currently in grad school at NYU for musical theater composition. One piece that I'm working on now involves a singing chicken that plays tic-tac-toe. (Chick-tac-toe!)

Besides cooking up music, I like cooking delectable dishes with friends. Yeah for the fresh fruit and veggies of the summer!

I like moving my body. I love dancing! I dance it up at live music shows or take part in an improv dance class at least once a week. I'm also into yoga and go regularly to classes and practice on my own. And I bike all over the city.

I'm passionate about fighting for justice as well. I worked for 6 years as a community organizer in Bushwick fighting for better housing conditions and immigrant rights. Pa'lante! Si se puede!
What I’m doing with my life
I try to live by my grandpa's motto that "you hardly live once." I try to fill each moment with presence and joy and surround myself as much as possible with people that I love.

Career-wise, I'm in grad school for musical theater in order to both become a teacher and to further develop my profession as a composer/performer. I'm particularly interested in ways of using art for social change.
I’m really good at
- Eating watermelon
- Being tickled
- Connecting with strangers
- Singing in the shower
- Listening
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh, my smile, streak of white in my hair (no, I wasn't hit by lightening.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Slavic Soul Party, Nina Simone, Buena Vista Social Club, Tom Waits, Thelonious Monk, Regina Spektor, Mercedes Sosa, Charles Mingus, David Bowie, Ella Fitzgerald, Bjork, Mos Def, Bill Evans, Aretha Franklin, Otis Redding, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Astor Piazolla, Theo Bleckmann, Kurt Weil, , The Beatles, Queen, Bach, Chopin...

Movies: A Separation, Pina, Beginners, Me and You and Everyone we Know, Citizen Kane, Jonestown: the Life and Death of People's Temple, A Film Unfinished...

Books: The Wind-up Bird Chronicles, The Interpreter of Maladies, No One Belongs Here More Than You, Another Country, Notes from the Underground, Waiting for the Barbarians, Magical Thinking, William Carlos Williams' collected works...

Food: Mousakka, Bibimbop, Cuban Black Beans, roasted kale, Moroccan roasted veggies... Fresh strawberries!!!
The six things I could never do without
1. Butter
2. Music
3. Love
4. Sunshine
5. Bicycles
6. Mangoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to fit all the beauty of life into these short days.
On a typical Friday night I am
Checking out live music or a play or having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was probably a platypus in another life.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are sweet, loving, and like to laugh!