Hey, I'm Jess (Jessica, Jessie, whatever other variation people choose to call me)! I really wish this site would give you the choice of pan-sexual, because that's what I identify as. I love people for themselves, not what parts they have! I would really like to find someone who thought the same way. Though I will admit, I do have a preference for women, and guys who are more feminine. Masculinity doesn't do much for me.
Now, some stuff about me!
I'm an avid videogamer. I use to be really into MMOs, but they beat my poor wallet up so much I had to quit them. I greatly enjoy competitive gaming, and I like to think I'm really good at them. League of Legends, is my current obsession. I also play tons of turn based strategy games, those are my thing.
I don't think I fall within the butch or prissy stereotypes, I'm much more of a tomgirl. I don't like getting dirty, but ill go camping any day! I love makeup and nice clothes, but I don't go overboard. I'm kinda in the middle, you know?
I'm pretty shy and reserved, especially around people I don't know. Though, around friends I can be pretty outgoing. I'm very laid back when no work needs to be done, I like to take life pretty easy. I've been told I have an amazingly sharp wit and can easily turn conversations around on people to make us laugh. I really love someone with a good sense of humor, I believe anything can be joked about. Uptight people kinda annoy me.
I'm a HUGE romantic, which is kinda a double edged sword. I have high expectations when it comes to my relationships, which is probably why I've been single for 19 years. But once I fall for a person, I fall hard. I can get a biiiit clingy, but I have no problem respecting people's space.
I am completely non-religious, and I doubt I'll ever be convinced into believing in spiritual things. I believe in the physical world, and things that have been tested and proven to be true. I guess you could say I have a very scientific mind.
I'm something of an "eternal optimist", I can find the good in like, any situation, and I am also just a super happy person. People who get in bad moods frequently bother me...cheer up!
When it comes to things like alcohol, smoking, drugs, etc...I'm pretty against stuff like that. Smoking slowly kills you and is just gross. Drugs like meth and stuff are just plain stupid, I shouldn't even have to explain that. As for softer stuff like weed, I'm a bit more accepting but I'm not sure I could date someone who does it. I'm fine if it's for medicinal purposes, but I think it's just unnecessary if you use it for anxiety issues or depression, they have prescription pills for that. I'm perfectly fine with alcohol in moderation. I have a small drink once in awhile after work to relax, but it's really more for the taste than the effect, I prefer to keep my head clear. If I was somehow unable to drink another alcoholic drink again in my life, I would be perfectly happy. I'm a bit wary of people who drink regularly.
Stuffed animals are freakin awesome. Also, I greatly enjoy babbling nonsensical sounds to myself to make me laugh.
Here's a list of things I love in a person! It's not a list of requirements mind you, they just get you bonus points. And yes, this applies to both boys and girls and everything inbetween.
* Long hair
* Computer savvy, or tech in general
* Quiet, not outspoken
* Non-vegetarian ( I freakin love meat)
* Into anime
* A love for good metal music
* Laid back
* Atheist, or no religious affiliation
* Above the influence
* Stuffed animal lover (big points for this one)
* Tolerant of others
There's more, but these are just some big ones. Lists are good!