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30 • Stockholm, Sweden • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 2:17pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Dropped out of masters program
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
While watching, I try to dabble in everything, which makes me good at nothing. True story.
Lately, I've begun being concerned. This is not a matter of WHAT I've been concerned about, there's so much to be concerned about that it's disconcerting. Let's just say I'm putting my money in an ethical bank, and buying fair trade clothes (the couch potato path to a better world).
I feel I'm too much of a fussy, grumpy ol' purist/loner to easily drop into a movement of people to actively pursue social goals. I also know that's a cheap excuse. Don't take me wrong, though, I'm a feminist, a sort-of-uneducated socialist, I care and debate about these things a lot.
I also geek around. Quite a bit.
Avoiding finishing things.
Snarky comments? Meh, I'll let others be the judge of that.
I mean, my hair.
To name some that stand out: The Wire, Monty Python's Flying Circus, The Sopranos, Gilmore Girls, Community, Game of Thrones, Stranger than Fiction, The Cell, Before Sunrise/Before Sunset, Office Space, Rosenkrantz & Guildenstern are dead, American beauty.
I mostly listen to music that sports the following feelings: depression, grief, sweetness/quirkiness and cleverness. Not all all at once, but combinations are good. Just to throw some names around, I'd say the musicians that have captured my heart the most are Sun of Nothing, Regina Spektor, Tom Lehrer, Skyclad, My Dying Bride, Garmarna, Blackbird Raum, and recently lots of folk music, lots of medieval music and traditional percussion. I also seem to have a thing for screaming girls, for example Miss Violetta Beauregarde.
Current obsession: mathcore, noisecore (Rolo Tomassi, Daughters, Gaza, Knut)
Even though I never read books, there are some that I liked (I am as puzzled as you are on the matter): anything by Patrick Süskind (especially The Dove and his Reflection), Moby Dick (double-entendre and all), The Silmarillion, Blindness and others by José Saramago, some Lenos Hristides, The Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy (I've read 4.7 of the books in the trilogy), Emmanouil Rhoides' Pope Joan (also: everything else he's written), Umberto Eco, Elric of Melniboné and other works by Michael Moorcock, and lately Gödel, Escher, Bach, even though I haven't finished it yet. Also, this is the point where I allude to all the other things I've read, whereby I imply they are numerous and deep.
WHY ARE GAMES MISSING from the title of this section. I will defiantly list games as well: I am a gamer, not by profession, but rather in a somewhat more pervasive, deep manner. I like to talk about games, and it's important to me.
In boardgames, I like long strategy games with a diplomatic element, like Warrior Knights, Game of Thrones, and of course, Diplomacy, but I also enjoy clever, innovative games of many sorts, with a soft spot for tight deck-building games, like Nightfall, Coreworlds and Eminent domain.
In videogames, I like... well, this is harder to define. I'd like to say _different_, but that sounds disgusting. Sample of my top list: Planescape: Torment, Starcraft (1 and 2), Portal, BioShock, Port Royale 2, Braid, and so on.
If you've never heard of any of the abovementioned, fear not, I can exist without flooding you with gaming stuff. There are other sides to life. I simply particularly like this one and would like to have an outlet for it.
2) THE INTERNET. *gasp* Yes, people, I am an internet freak. I can't go a single day without my cat videos and a billion images on imgur.
3) Debating and over-analyzing. Ideal world: one without any silences. Well, okay, some. Only good ones.
4) Witticisms and puns. Martin Walkyier got me into this, and I can't get out of it.
5) Interacting with music. Weather by playing, shaking uncontrollably or simply listening while doing work, I live and breathe sound.
6) Fuck you, there's no 6. (I could never do without swearing and expressing myself freely, even when I feel I need to be vulgar)
Also, I like muscular women.
How should I know, just read the answers, dummy.
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