Basically, I'm looking for a very casual relationship. Sort of like a FWB type of thing, with an emphasis on the "friends" part. I want some type of connection to exist, but don't want to be called - or be expected to be calling you 10 times a day to know of my or your whereabouts. I greatly value my and your independence. Oh, we can certainly keep in touch with chats, talk, and generally nurturing our connection when necessary 'til we meet.
Like many out there, my work schedule is hectic. It really doesn't permit me time for anything serious. In that sense, I would like to meet someone to hang out with occasionally as our schedules permit. Age is not as much a factor as an appealing personality is.
And well, let's face it, I say friends, but Sex is just about my favorite thing in the world. So this agreement or understanding, obviously involves extracurricular activities. While I'm not shockingly outrageous, I'm not the vanilla type either, so you should have some and expect some creativity with respect to sex. If you don't, I'm willing to show. You'd be mildly surprised!!
I'm looking for someone who understands why it will not always be convenient to get together and is in a similiar situation. So, please be someone with a good sense of understanding.
For the above reasons, it would seem that my preferences point towards someone who is either married or currently attached. Probably because it would be something a married or attached person would more likely understand and expect that it is not always convenient to get together. Which is something that I'm perfectly willing to accept. If that is who you might be and looking for the same type of connection as I am, then I will obviously respect your situation and exercise appropriate discretion under all circumstances.
Not withstanding the previous statements, you can also be anyone, who, like me, is single with restrictive time constraints and/or strongly values their independance.
In that sense, I don't want to preclude any single woman who feels like I do and is in a similar situation because of work, career and/or who might be a single parent with important and additional time-consuming family responsibilities.
I don't have children, but I do understand that many times it's very difficult for a woman to be able to give time she doesn't really have to commit to a personal relationship with someone on account of that added workload; but that for our own personal, physical and emotional well-being it's important to occasionally be able to have a connection with someone for that adult time.
I want a woman who is physical, and in communication with her body and heart. Who is not attached to monogamy, but open-minded, simply affectionate, and fairly sex-obsessed. I'm only asking for what I know I can offer. Someone who is straight, honest and realistic. Speaks English fluently. I don't care about academics, but I care about smarts. I love a woman who is not afraid to be positively filthy but still manages to exude a general self-respect. Someone who is on the submissive side but with a bit of flexibility. I want someone I can see about once a week, give or take. I want someone I can talk to, be intimate with, make love to and fuck intermittently or simultaneously :)
My no. 1 priority is that we like each other first as people before anything else; and that we can spend some time together comfortably and just be who we are and have some good adult fun.
Let's not forget. I'm not there to take something away from you, interfere, impose or create a rift in your life, but to add something that's lacking or missing in our lives, depending on your lifestyles or fantasies.
On that note, I'm 6'3", 200lbs, very clean, neatly trimmed, full head hair. I'm relatively attractive and pleasing to the eye to most, pleasant personality, out-going, attentive, nice built-fit. I'm confident with a sense of humor, respectful of limitations, a people person, I love laughter, value smart and witty people, love good food and wine, and also speak French. Ok, a few other languages as well. So, if you're a linguist, you've met your match!!
Oh, I forgot to mention, well endowed as well, to those for whom it matters. I've found that it does.
If you see yourself in what I've described and what it is that I'm looking for and offering, then we likely have a connection.
Thank you for your consideration and I hope that I've intrigued, interested or compelled someone out there wishing to do something like this.