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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm a good guy (I can get you references). I'm kind, compassionate, funny, smart, solvent, spiritual and self-aware (and usually modest when not trying to market myself). So if you're looking for someone with a playful attitude combined with a deep caring about the state of the world and a dash of culture and sophistication (and who has a fondness for parentheses) I could be your man. Hoping for a long-term relationship with a woman with a big heart, a great sense of humor, a desire to make the world a better place, and a playful attitude. Someone with some sort of spiritual practice who takes good care of herself physically and emotionally is important as well. Bonus points if you're a Jewbu (or even know what that is). Does that sound like you? Call now, while supplies last.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning and growing and being. Developing my career as a psychotherapist / social worker. Volunteering (currently I'm a mentor with the Y). Hiking and biking and going to yoga classes. I've recently started a new relationship..with a very sweet rescue cat, so hopefully you don't have any allergies. Love plays, symphonies live music and traveling but don't do them as often as I'd like. Wanna come along?
I’m really good at
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laughing, appreciating life, meditating, napping, eating, supporting, surfing (the web that is).
The first things people usually notice about me
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What I hear most often is that I'm friendly, funny, kind and devastatingly handsome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading the New Yorker, a good novel here and there and books on personal growth and the theory and practice of psychotherapy. One of my favorite shows is This American Life. Brilliant and inspiring. Also love Dharma Seed.
Movies: Way too many to list here but.... an extremely random list of films that I have really enjoyed and can think of at the moment: Nights of Cabiria, Kagemusha, Garden State, Annie Hall (well, many Woody films would make the list), The Visitor, Lars and the Real Girl, Winter Light, Fanny and Alexander.
Music: Generally like the oldies but goodies: Joni Mitchell, Van Morrison, The Who, Jackson Browne, Neil Young, Muddy Waters, Bob Dylan. Currently listening to a lot of Gillian Welch and more KCSM (jazzz).
Food-yes! Meat, vegetables, fish, mexican, thai you name it. Spicy is good. I prefer fresh and simple to fancy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You mean besides air, food, water, etc?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social and Economic Justice
Why aren't people nicer to each other?
Spiritual Growth
Why college students are so noisy ( I live close to campus).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy to be alive!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I looked up private in the dictionary and it said "Something that you don't publish on the internet". However, if there's something you want to know, just ask me and you'll get an honest answer.
You should message me if
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You value honesty and authenticity.
You aspire to spiritual growth (or you're already enlightened).
You appreciate humor and also take life seriously.
You have a big heart (or are at least working on it).
You want to meet me.