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JimDeezy19

30 / M / Straight / Single

New Haven, Connecticut

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:02pm
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself."
What I’m doing with my life
I recently bought a home and it came with a jacuzzi! Working evening shift at a New Haven hospital and saving lives.

Being an awesome dad!

I practice Nichiren Buddhism with SGI-USA. Truthfully, this philosophy can alleviate so much suffering and bring total victory to those who try it! It is a hidden treasure in this world.
I’m really good at
listening and nodding (hehe), empathy, vibing

Working out lately. Don't worry, I will spare y'all the shirtless photos.

Throwing in a y'all because I was born in the bluegrass state
The first things people usually notice about me
My height I gather or the fact that I'm not totally white. Or could it be that proverbial twinkle in the eye? You be the judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alice in Chains, The Beatles, Bruce Springsteen, The Clash, Elliot Smith, The Jesus Lizard, Joy Division, Lead Belly, Led Zeppelin, Miles Davis, Rammstein,Talking Heads, Tom Waits, Trampled by Turtles, Velvet Underground, XTC

Affliction, Django Unchained, Take Shelter, Planes, trains and automobiles, Chaplin, any Hitchcock film really

Vonnegut of course, Nabokov, C. S. Forester, Christopher Hitchens, George Orwell, Bukowski, Alexandre Dumas, many more...
The six things I could never do without
Oak trees
thunderstorms
music
contemplation
horizons
Concord grapes

Let's add coffee here for the hell of it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The fire inside, walking aimlessly or better yet running, holding hands, staring out at the ocean on a misty, slightly breezy night, mind-blowing concerts

I also spend a lot of time thinking about the mentor/disciple relationship and changing poison into medicine.

How tobacco execs live with themselves...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. Seriously, can I get a Friday night off once in a blue moon?
I mean shit, I like to let my hair down.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get nervous when I see a detour sign in New Haven
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are a huge Boss fan! If you don't know who The Boss is, then we have a lot of work to do.

If hiking the Appalachian Trail does anything for you or if you have read Unbroken and want to let me know what you think about that...