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48 Nashville, TN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:03pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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------You know, sometimes I feel like I have been living in the cynical world of Game of Thrones and everyone else has been living in some Disney fantasy of fairy princesses and perfect castles. I've lived in a world where Boy Scout leaders molest boys (not me, but I knew the ones), TWO church congregations divide and dig up dirt on each other AND their children to get their way, fathers beat the crap out of their kids for minor infractions (me), bullies run unchecked in schools, military officers kill their own men to satisfy their curiosity if 'some new tactic' will work, most businesses think the best way to make money is by screwing their employees and breaking the law (multiple people in my history, actually went to the FTC as a whistleblower on the last one) and people think lying, crudeness and being inconsiderate is a way to attract a partner. I think sometimes I am Diogenes with his lamp, looking for one honest, decent person. The thing is, that with all I've been through (and there is more unlisted!), I am still a good man, have never allowed myself to be broken by it, still positive on the future, still find lots of things that bring me joy. Frankly I get along a lot better with those that have been thru a bit of the stuff themselves, because if your greatest travail was your parents not buying the pony you wanted (actual story from one date!!!) or not getting prom queen, we're really going to be on different pages.
-------- Now to sell myself. LOL Self-promotion is something I detest but seemingly par for the course here. I'm a dad, hard worker, explorer, movie lover, legendary kayaker (almost 2000 miles in the past 8 years!), environmentalist, liberal, agnostic. I hate labels too so don't expect me to stick to stereotypes and please don't yourself because I hate human cliches. I am honest even to my own demise, passionate, and so I'm told, a good lover ( taken with salt). I also invented a time machine, killed baby Hitler (moral conundrum be damned), broke the sound barrier before Chuck Yeager, won an Olympic gold medal in jousting and a Nobel Prize in Literature. I've spent the last few years recovering from disasters not entirely of my own doing and things are looking decidedly up but not where I want yet. In 16 months I will be there! Join me!
What I’m doing with my life
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Kayaking, hiking, working, movies, exploring...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, outdoorsy stuff, Risk, being rock solid dependable, saying what everyone is thinking but afraid to say (or so said the coworkers at one job), passion, making lists (my one OCD trait), checking them twice lol, surprising people with what I can do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most women usually like my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am fond of history and science, so you can find me reading things there often. I enjoy Hemingway and many of the other classics of literature. Movies and TV--I am partial to SciFi though I do enjoy other genres save horror. Like everyone else, I like the Walking Dead, Game of Thrones and Mad Men. Music--I am a classic rock kind of guy, though I have branched out into more modern stuff and enjoy classical. Food--sushi, a good steak... Not a foodie but I love to explore new dining choices.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have had the misfortune to have lost almost everything twice in my life. It is amazing what you find is nonessential. Hope is the only exception.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, my daughter's future, history, politics, environmental issues, various storylines I make up and develop in my head, sources for new music for my iPod, my next trip, my next BIG trip, trips I would take if you were there...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recharging from work for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are ready to meet someone and are not interested in playing games. if you still behave as far as dating like you did in high school or college, pass me by. Believe it or not, I have a really good sense of humor. I got tons of compliments on how funny the previous incarnation of my profile. Humor and 10 cents will apparently only get you a cup of coffee. Time for seriousness. Be serious, then we can go searching for fun and happiness.