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48 Nashville, TN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:25pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Three adjectives to describe me? Honestly, who is going to say they are a selfish, bloodthirsty philanderer? Of COURSE we are all wonderful, charming and loveable people! I always have to wonder about that in obituaries with some concern because apparently jerks and unloved loners live forever! At the rate of attrition of nice people, the odds are that you are probably not one of them. I try to be a good person and live my life by the golden rule but who knows what everyone really thinks. I'd tell you to read my obituary in a couple of decades but I might not die! Failing that you could always just email me and find out for sure. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Kayaking, surfing on the computer, reading way too much (or so I was told---only in America!) entertaining my daughter (and vice versa) every other weekend AND waiting for YOU! I like the simple things in life, like discussing string theory, building my weather control machine and deciding what to say in my dating profile.
I’m really good at
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post apocalyptic amateur emergency surgery
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes, when I am not wearing my hockey mask, or alternately the machete I am swinging at their head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books--too many to count. I am always reading multiple books. The Lord of the Rings are about the only books that I can recall reading multiple times. Movies---I have always loved this 60's movie called the Sand Pebbles. I love scifi or an intense drama. I think Judd Apatow's movies are hysterical. Music---I am a classic rock kind of guy but I have dipped a bit into modern stuff like Moby and Coldplay too. Food--sushi!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kayak, Coca Cola, getting outside, this computer unfortunately, my daughter, world peace...'we don't have that? DAMN! Can I get a raincheck on number 5?', making sarcastic comments apparently...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...That I shouted out, "Who killed the Kennedys?", when after all, it was (name redacted) and me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...asking Mom and Dad for the keys to the Chevy so I can cruise the 'circle' with the greasers...what am I, 17? My days of worrying if my social agenda would be filled on Friday night ended almost 30 years ago. Now it is taking it easy after a long work week and planning for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! that I am a private person who doesn't admit things in boxes for all to see. Of course if I did admit a private thing here then I would create a rupture in the time-space continuum and life as we know it would cease to exist. You're welcome.
You want a REALLY private thing? I have Asperger's syndrome, or what used to be called that. I don't fit some of the stereotypes on that so don't rush to judgment.

Ok, time for a brief foray into seriousness here. My profile seems short on it so I will throw in some details: I've been divorced for many years and I have a 16 year old daughter from that who I adore. As she ages, she becomes much more interested in her social circle than her dad, so I have more and more time alone. In two years she plans on leaving for NYC. I enjoy my alone time, but it would be nice to have someone with which to catch a movie or go on a hike or something. My life took a sharp economic downswing over the past few years, so if you are hunting for the financial good life, pass me by. Things are looking better, but it is a hard slog in this country. I like to think I have other things to offer. If money is important to you then I am not for you. I am NOT a social butterfly. I avoid hordes of people, noise and small talk like the plague. Give me substance, not fluff! I don't suffer fools gladly, but I loathe egotistical snobs with intellectual pretensions. Give me the outdoors, a good book or a quiet evening at home any day! That's enough for now. If you want to know more, just ask!
8/5/14: Gotta say something, lol, LOL! And I would follow this with a dozen shirtless selfies in front of the mirror. I have heard hordes of women complain about these two things endlessly. Girls, get over yourselves. Not everyone is as socially clued in as you. Give the man world a break. I have seen so many women who were physically gorgeous but who were hideously ugly inside and unattractive women who had beautiful personalities.
As an update, I am probably not going to write you. It's not that I am averse to that but I am stepping this back a notch or ten and I have found that women that I have to 'sell' on me typically start looking for flaws in between blinks. My best matches tend to be with women who either find me and write or just return the OKC version of my wink.
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You want to or if I indicate interest, because if you don't, the terrorists win!

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