Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am unconventional, I took a hard left from the mainstream a long
time ago, by that I don't mean, my furniture choices.
I like to make stuff and do things. I like to create crowds to hide
in, light myself on fire to distract you from the gold hot pants I
am wearing and ride bikes for fun. I read the good parts in books,
fast forward to the ends of movies and listen to the small talk of
strangers. I learn new things all the time and answer my questions.
I have lots of interests and I value the time it takes to
I am not looking for someone to mirror or complete me. I am looking
for someone who is their own unique self and shares some of my
values. It would be great to find someone who wants to spend their
time with me but recognizes neither of us can give the other
everything they need or want. I am open to something long term with
a patient committed person.
I stay fit, I like to get to the gym and walk places.
I have some exes, things didn't work out for various reasons,(life
goals, want babies, geography) the majority of them think I am
pretty great, as are they, and we remain friends.
I can be pretty loyal and caring. I am prone to extended absence,
my best friends see me monthly, my romantic partners will see me
I can be casual, sex isn't a big deal to me. I do recognize that
when you care about someone that connection makes it amazing. My
preference is to put my energy into that. Of course you never know
where you'll find that connection so you have to try...right?
I should also say that I identify as non-monogamous, not because I
need to sling my dick around all over the place. The opposite is
true, I like to be loyal. I can't deal with the ownership,
possessiveness and jealousy that comes with the popular notion of
monogamy that we are enculturated with.
Lastly and I feel like a jerk but this has to be said. I am kind of
picky, I don't mind slang or abbreviated words, but I can't stand
LOL, lol in texts, chats or emails. I am really judgmental about it
and it makes me hate myself. So please don't use it when messaging
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an artist. I mainly work with mixed media. I do a lot of
bicycle themed work. I work with a group of people on a project
called the CoLab a community workshop space.
Current projects are Burning Man related although I have never
I live an alternative lifestyle and avoid the mainstream. So I
don't own condo or have a car payment. I love community living and
have an extended and diverse social network.
You see the photo of me posing with my motorcycle, I realize that's
a douche alert, which would be true if it was a gsxr or something
but it is a dual sport so that should be code for aging rambler, I
don't know which is worse.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
working with my hands,
helping other people make things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This fine moustache, the grey in my beard, my many tattoos, my soft
eyes and sweet smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have always been a reader and will read just about
I like essays about current events.
Recently I have been to a bunch of burlesque and east van style
freak shows, it might be research I am doing.
I like taking someone for their first motorcycle ride. I have all
the gear for a simple meal in a sheltered nook on mountainside.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My hands, my eyes, my bicycle, my tools, my books, and my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you know, deep thoughts like, what if I needed to be inside someone
to find out I really loved them and I was never inside you? what a
tragedy that would be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with a group of friends, going to a show or event after
that, being chill, prepping to get up early,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmm, I might be kind of kinky, just how kinky you would need to ask
You should message me if
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you want to meet someone new and maybe get all humpy with
you like the look of me and are bold enough to spend a few moments
in person to see if there are sparks
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