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Jimfamous

45 M Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you like the look of me on the quick match, just send me a message. I am happy to exchange a few notes to see if we could have some fun together. That said....

I am unconventional, I took a hard left from the mainstream a long time ago, by that I don't mean, my furniture choices.

I like to make stuff and do things. I like to create crowds to hide in, light myself on fire to distract you from the gold hot pants I am wearing and ride bikes for fun. I read the good parts in books, fast forward to the ends of movies and listen to the small talk of strangers. I learn new things all the time and answer my questions. I have lots of interests and I value the time it takes to investigate them.

I am not looking for someone to mirror or complete me. I am looking for someone who is their own unique self and shares some of my values. It would be great to find someone who wants to spend their time with me but recognizes neither of us can give the other everything they need or want. I am open to something long term with a patient committed person.

I stay fit, I like to get to the gym, yoga to stay limber and centered.

I have some exes, things didn't work out for various reasons,(life goals, want babies, geography) the majority of them think I am pretty great, as are they, and we remain friends.

I can be pretty loyal and caring. I am prone to extended absence, my best friends see me monthly, my romantic partners will see me more frequently.

I can be casual, sex isn't a big deal to me. I do recognize that when you care about someone that connection makes it amazing. My preference is to put my energy into that. Of course you never know where you'll find that connection so you have to try...right?

I should also say that I identify as non-monogamous, not because I need to sling my dick around all over the place. The opposite is true, I like to be loyal. I can't deal with the ownership, possessiveness and jealousy that comes with the popular notion of monogamy that we are enculturated with.

Lastly and I feel like a jerk but this has to be said. I am kind of picky, I don't mind slang or abbreviated words, but I can't stand LOL, lol in texts, chats or emails. I am really judgmental about it and it makes me hate myself. So please don't use it when messaging me.

Also I truly believe that all my internets sounds like this when I text a lady for the first time.. http://straightwhiteboystexting.tumblr.com
Which makes me really shy even tho I am perfectly charming and intelligent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work part-time for a humanitarian organization. I am also an artist. I mainly work with mixed media. I do a lot of bicycle themed work. I work with a group of people on a project called the CoLab a community workshop space.

I live an alternative lifestyle and avoid the mainstream. So I don't own condo or have a car payment. I love community living and have an extended and diverse social network.

You see the photo of me posing with my motorcycle, I realize that's a douche alert, which would be true if it was a gsxr or something but it is a dual sport so that should be code for aging rambler, I don't know which is worse.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
working with my hands,
making stuff,
helping other people make things.
making art
making beauty
making love
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This fine moustache, the grey in my beard, my many tattoos, my soft eyes and sweet smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have always been a reader and will read just about anything. I like long reads from the internet, a closer look at people and current events.
Recently I have been to a bunch of burlesque and east van style freak shows, it might be research I am doing.
I really like little nibbley dishes of food that can be shared.
I like taking someone for their first motorcycle ride. I have all the gear for a simple meal in a sheltered nook on mountainside.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My hands, my eyes, my bicycle, my tools, my books, and my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you know, deep thoughts like, what if I needed to be inside someone to find out I really loved them and I was never inside you? what a tragedy that would be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with a group of friends, going to a show or event after that, being chill, prepping to get up early,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmm, I might be kind of kinky, just how kinky you would need to ask about. Also mildly narcissistic, tho not harmfully, mostly becomes annoying after I stop appearing charming..
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to meet someone new and maybe get all humpy with them, which is probably true if we have a high match potential, ( i only answered the sex and dating questions)

you like the look of me and are bold enough to spend a few moments in person to see if there are sparks