«Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I will meet you there.» — Rumi
«Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.» -Helen Keller
— My Hopes
Ultimately, I’m looking for a single, long-term romantic partner. I’m looking for chemistry, connection, love, laughter, comfort, caretaking, homemaking, conversation and a lifetime story to remember.
Until that day, I’m looking for people to experience life with, with the hopes of finding that very special someone one day.
Why am I on this site? Because I like progressive women. And I like polyamorous relationships, and mutually beneficial agreements as a way to break the ice and get to know someone.
I'm sex-loving, poly-friendly, kink-friendly, commercial sex worker friendly, alternative lifestyle friendly, kid friendly, pet friendly, friends and family friendly… etc, etc.
I grew-up poor, and ended-up well off, and I have friends all along the way, between the top 1% to the bottom 10%.
I enjoy everything from movies and dinner, to farmers markets and flea markets, from walks on the beach to walks in the redwoods, from politics to economics, and from the latest in psychology to the oldest in philosophy.
I've been to swinger parties, BDSM parties, sugar-baby parties, stripper parties, poly potlucks, nudist hot-springs, yoga/chant camp, tantric energy exchange, trips to LA, Boston, Austin, Japan, and NYC, and a bunch of other stuff. It's a crazy fun world we live in.
— my Politics:
I'm a strong believer is the decriminalization of all consensual activities between adults.
— About the woman I'm looking for:
The following is my fantasy wish list:
Life Philosopher/Scientist: Think deeply about life? I would love to hear everything!
Story-teller: Know how to tell a good story? So much of life is about telling stories. From 'How was your Day?' to 'What's your political position on that?'. I can't imagine spending life with anyone except an amazing story-teller.
Adventurer: Wanna go explore life? Experience something most people only dream about? Do that fantasy you've told me so many time? Or that fantasy you just created? I'm in!!
Caregiver: I'm happy to get these needs met outside the relationship, but I really enjoy having my emotional/physical/sexual well-being cared for.
Homemaker: Also happy to hire outside help for this, but if you enjoy homemaking in any sense of the activity, I really enjoy this trait in a partner.
Pervert Like Sex? Like Porn? Masturbation? Fantasies? Toys? Erotica? Kink? Fetishes? The Taboo? Ever had a partner you could share anything with? Want one?
In Public My Dream Lover:
1. is a great conversationalist
2. thinks a lot about life
3. has several close friends
4. enjoys people watching
5. likes to travel
6. loves life
7. wears heels with jeans (optional)
8. has a great sense of humor
In Private My Dream Lover:
1. is a great conversationalist.
2. thinks a lot about her own life
3. talks about her deepest thoughts and fantasies
4. enjoys lots of pillow talk
5. likes to cook a great meal
6. is open minded and adventurous
7. loves to run, jump and skip barefoot
8. had a great sense of humor
— In Closing:
Well? Whatcha waiting for? Email me. And, let's start planning our first rendezvous…