So, Guys are like shoes?
Best answers so far include:
"You need a good pair for every occasion"
"Some are made for walking and some for showing off"
"The old ones that just fit are my favorite"
"I've got a whole closet full of them"
etc, etc, etc....
“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I will meet you there.” — Rumi
I find myself somewhat socially awkward and without a good understanding of how the world and everything works, but I do like thinking about it all especially with small groups of friends!
«If you are a dreamer, come in
If you are a dreamer, a wisher, a liar
A hope-er, a pray-er, a magic bean buyer...
If you're a pretender, come sit by my fire
For we have some flax-golden tales to spin.
«Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.»
I'm a demisexual, sapiosexual hedonist. I fall in love easily and adore the simple things in life, relationships and the natural world.
I'm somewhat 'Kinky', but more accurately I'm extremely playful. I love exploring boundaries in safe, sane and consensual ways.
For some people, holding hands in the park is beyond what they are comfortable doing. For others, it's something 'fifty shades darker'. And for me, it's the pure childhood joy of being there while you push beyond your comfort zone. And yes, if you wanna partner in crime, feel free to give me a call.
And I'm a Dad. I have joint physical, legal, emotional, spiritual, recreational, educational and economic custody of 3 wonderful kids. They are my primary focus in life. And everything else is a distant secondary concern.
and if you'd like to know more about any of the above, feel free to ask!
Well, I also have a superpower...No matter what your truth/reality is, I can handle probably it.
Got drama? No problem.
Got rules? Easy-peasy.
Got requests? Let's hear them.
But like all superpowers, my abilities come with some fatal flaws…
I only know what you tell me, I can't read minds, and I need you to openly communicate your needs, wants, wishes, ideals, fears, dreams and fantasies with me...and in return I promise to listen, and treat this information with the respect and care that it deserves.
— Just the Facts (about me):
Skin: Caucasian (olive)
Status: Divorced after 19 years of marriage.
Net Income: $135k/yr.
(note: No, I'm not a millionaire)
Sexual Orientation: Hetero
Relationship Style: Polyamorous (I like being in a few long-term (2-3) open relationships at once. And I like some time alone.)
Kids: 3 boys (15,11,8)
Health: Kinda health... I eat health but could use more time in the gym.
Hygiene: Clean & Tested
Style: Very Casual to Business Casual
Looks: Average on the outside.
Hobbies: Life with Close Friends (I love sharing time with people while they are doing the tasks of everyday life, just being together while we live out our individual lives)
Life Philosophy: Every day's a Holiday, Every meal's a Feast.
Smoking: never tried it
Drinking: never tried it
Personality: I'm a Curious Cat that's already used-up 6 of my 9 lives…
But enough about me, let's talk about you.
— About you:
In Public you:
1. are a great conversationalist
2. think a lot about life
3. have several close friends
4. enjoy people watching
5. like to travel
6. love life
7. wear heels with jeans (optional)
8. have a good sense of humor
In Private you:
1. are a great conversationalist.
2. think a lot about your own life
3. talk about your deepest thoughts and fantasies
4. enjoy pillow talk
5. like to share a good meal
6. are open minded
7. run, jump and skip barefoot
8. have a great sense of humor
— In Closing:
Well? Whatcha waiting for? Email me. And, let's start planning our first rendezvous…