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JimmyChil

24 M Athens, TX

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:18am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm easy to get along with. Once I become comfortable with you and begin to like you, I will be a loyal friend.

I'm introspective and inquisitive. I like to have discussions about issues I'm interested in and ask deep questions. I don't aim to change anyone's opinion, but I do enjoy learning about other different viewpoints and having mine heard. I consider myself open-minded.

I'm honest, almost to a fault. I'm almost incapable of lying, especially on the spot, and planning a story to tell a lie makes me feel guilty to even consider. I will try to be considerate as I possibly can without compromising the truth.

I'm conscientious. I don't partake in any drug or alcohol use. It's okay if you drink alcohol in moderation. Complete abstinence from recreational drugs is a must for me.

I have three dogs and another dog who I share with my brother, all of whom I love. I'm open to cats, but I'm not in love with them.

I have no children. I don't consider that something of achievement or worthy of shame. I'm open to a relationship with a single parent I suppose, but I could not guarantee I could care for the child well, at least at first, simply due a lack of experience.

I don't think I want children, especially biological children. It's not that I don't like the idea of passing my genetics. I just don't see the need for creating more people especially when there are children already born who need a parent.

I like science as a casual observer, but by no means am I an expert or a die-hard enthusiast. I'm particularly fond of psychology, even if it is a social science, and astronomy.

I'm not religious or spiritual, but I'm not militant about it and I don't consider my lack of belief in the supernatural a fault and I'm not going to compromise on this for a relationship.

Politically, I'm very much a cultural liberal. I support the separation of church and state, reproductive rights, LGBT rights, smart gun laws restricting what types of guns can be owned and who can own them, and civil liberties in general. I'm not sure what stance to take on economic issues, but I don't think that all government regulation is unproductive. I think all-or-nothing thinking poisons political discussion.

Although I list myself as bisexual on OkCupid, the label I best identify with is probably panromantic asexual. I think sexuality and romance is more fluid and complicated than most people care to admit. My sexual experience is limited, and I'm not sure if I'd like to have an experience beyond what I've had, but I've been fine without it so far. It's not something on my bucket list that I just have to cross out, which reminds me that I probably need a bucket list.

Philosophically, I'm at least supportive of the concept of polyamory. To me, the only form of cheating in a relationship is this idea that partners are in possession of each other at the exclusion of anyone else. Emotional, romantic, and sexual relationships someone might have with other people besides you should not be a factor of how you view that person and their relationship with you. However, I've never liked group settings and I've always liked dealing with people one-on-one. It's just a personal preference, and fortunately, I require a lot of me time where I just like to be by myself. I don't think I'm clingy, or at least I hope I'm not clingy.

Rereading my self-summary makes me think of Flannery O'Connor's quote, "I write because I don't know what I think until I read what I say," and that's the case with my self-summary. I write this in the process of still working myself out, so a lot of this is subject to change, but this is how I best express myself, in my opinion. It's a lifelong journey.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently living in Athens and currently looking for work and possibly returning to university to obtain my bachelor's science in preferably in computer science, and maybe later a master's or doctorate in some psychology field.
I’m really good at
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writing, typing quickly, spelling, mathematics, and thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my height, my shyness, and my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ender's Game, the Harry Potter series, To Kill a Mockingbird

Movies: Inception, Gran Torino, The Dark Knight trilogy, Life of Pi

Shows: 24, Homeland, Modern Family, Community, The Big Bang Theory

Music: Evanescence, Within Temptation, Chevelle, Muse, Nightwish

Food: spaghetti, french toast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my mind, my family, my cell phone, the Internet, television, and my dogs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to do with my life, my dream house, philosophy, politics, and novels or scripts for TV shows I plan on writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually working. If I'm off, I'll watch a movie, sometimes in a theater or sometimes at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would say that the most private thing I'm willing to admit on this site is that I've never been in a romantic relationship. The reason why is that I'm quite shy and unsure of myself, I don't have an immediate attraction to people, I don't like the process of getting to know people, and I don't like to ask people out when I do know them well. I think I'm afraid of opening up. Not with what I think, but with how I feel. I know that's not something to boast about, but that's why I'm mentioning it here.

In real life, I'm actually more private about my opinions on religion. "Coming out" is a endless process that is always necessary when I get to know people, especially if they're very vocal about religion or even just inquisitive and just assume that you're a Christian, a mistake too commonly committed in East Texas. I think that's at least partially why I'm so afraid of being social. I'm more reactive in that sense.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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love life, are personable, possess a beautiful mind, value secularism, humanism, and individualism, or have similar interests.

If you want a response, the best way is to tell me a little about yourself and ask something about me. Compliments are always appreciated, but I'd like it if a little interest is displayed.