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32 New Haven, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:07pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

For one thing, I don't think I photograph well. I like to think that I'm funny, and witty, but I can hold a "smart" conversation. I often like to refer to myself as the smartest dumb guy in the room.

I'm a nerd, I play video games, read comics, watch sci-fi and action flicks. But I am also a martial artist, a rockclimber, an archer, a hiker, a camper, and a cook. I have many skill sets. I like to call myself an "action nerd."

I love to make people laugh. On certain days I consider trying my hand at stand-up comedy, but I then I realize what a terrible idea that would actually be.

I'm pagan, too. But that doesn't need to effect you in any way. If you want to talk about it with me, great, if not, I'm probably not going to bring it up first. But it helps me get through my day, which is really anyone can ask of a religion.

I'm pretty smart. I'm also incredibly stupid. I am pretty peculiar. I'm also pretty mundane. I am a contradiction.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a chef. Even went to Johnson and Wales, and earned myself a degree in the culinary arts. I currently cook for a whole foods.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, cooking I hope. I like to think I am good at solving problems. People have told me that I am a good person to talk to about problems or such drama.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my height. I am only 5'5".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Good Omens by Neil Gaiman, American Gods by Neil Gaiman, Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman... sensing a pattern?
The zombie survival guide by max brooks, Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonegut, The Thief by Megan Whalen Turner, Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain... and MORE...

Movies: (I just realized I buy mainly action and adventure flicks... I do love some dramas, I just usually don't want to watch them multiple times. and because of that, i can't think of them at the moment...)

Confidence, The Warriors, In Bruges, Swingers, Shaun of the Dead, The French Connection, Army of Darkness, Snatch, The Bourne Trilogy, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy (yes, I know they are books, too. I really tried to read them, but they kinda read like the bible.) V for Vendetta, Six-String Samurai... and MORE...

Nearly all Punk. Ska, metal, Classical, I am really all over the board. I could list names, but that would take forever. and besides, how fun would be going out on a date with me if you already knew absolutely everything?

update: I had this idea in the shower. I made a pandora station of what I'm listening to right now. It doesn't encompass all of my tastes, but a portion of it. have a listen HEEEEERE. YOU CAN CLICK THIS. CLIIIIIIIICK.

Food. All of it. I'm a chef, remember? It's my crack.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food. I love trying new and interesting things, and the more masochistic part of me enjoys trying food that other people find disgusting. beef liver sashimi, for example.
2. Cell phone.
3. The "off" button on said cell phone.
4. The internet. It's a seemingly endless river of knowledge and useless, time-wasting videos. As a single male in this modern age, could I ask for anything better?
5. Music, of any kind. I have my preferences, but any at all is good for drowning out the sounds of society.
6. Spell check. without it, this whole profile would be UNREADABLE.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People. Places. Things. How everything intertwines.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, then bar and friends.

Actually, thats a lie. If I happen to not go out, chances are movies or video games will ensue. I just went on a whole rant about being nerdy. I have also been known to do said activities with friends. (Spoiler alert, I'm updating this at a bar.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
easy going
enjoy the outdoors
fit enough to keep up with me
Looking for a "forever" relationship
Cool with never having kids

An open letter to "the one."

Dear... You,

I like to think you're out there. But, I don't know for sure. I don't know if live near me, if you're on okcupid, if you even exist. I try to keep the faith that I'll find you. The thing is, if you don't exist, or if we never cross paths, I have learned one thing.

I can live without you.

I shouldn't have to, and I'd really like to meet you, but I can be happy without you. I think, because of that, my chances of meeting you actually improve. Love seems to be paradoxical in that way; The better you survive without it, the better you'll be at having and holding it.

But on the flip side, I'll never stop looking for you. And I won't settle for anything less than you. I deserve it, as much as you do. I've had some tough breaks on the dating scene, enough to make me consider giving up the search. But I won't. I'll keep thinking that you're out there.

This is probably a crazy thing to put on a dating profile. Maybe I am a little crazy. but then again, you probably are, too. Maybe you'll read this and think, "that's actually sweet, in a crazy way. I prefer my crazies too be sweet."

Here's hoping.