So, let's be honest, if you're reading this that means you've seen my profile photo and decided to read further. That was half the battle. Now you're most likely looking for certain qualities and/or deal breakers. You're looking for something that will make you want to continue reading and possibly connect with me or something that will cause you to "kthxbye."
You may be looking to see if I can write in complete sentences with proper grammar and punctuation. You may be looking to see if I'm adventurous or risky or daring. Do I like to travel? Do I want kids? Do I have kids? Do I have an education, an income, a way of making you interested in me? So let me clear some of that up:
I can write and communicate in complete sentences with proper grammar and punctuation.
I'm not a risk seeker or thrill seeker (other than roller coasters).
I don't like to travel very much and when I do, I just want to get from point A to point B.
I do want children, very much so.
I do not have children and have never come close to having children.
As previously mentioned, I have been to college, so I have an education in psychology, economics, and philosophy.
So if you're looking for the hottie with abs with the foreign car that sounds like crap and looks equally so because I decided to try and paint it myself, I'm not him. But if you're looking for someone who is responsible, financially aware, and will try hard to make you happier than him, I'm your guy. If you're looking for someone who will, on the first date, look at your chest the whole time thinking of ways I can manipulate my way into your pants, I'm not him. However, if you're looking for the guy who will (let's face it, I'll be attracted to you. It's a compliment) steal glances at your chest but be way too nervous to articulate a thought, I'm that guy. I'll never cheat. Cheating doesn't make any sense to me. If I'm that miserable in the relationship, then I'll just break up with you. I'll probably lie, but nothing huge or serious. I.e. why yes! Yes I did dust under the fish bowl!
If you're still reading by this point, you may become curious as to what I'm seeking. I'm looking for a strong woman, but I don't want to feel emasculated either. Does this mean I'm one of those kinds of guys who don’t want you to have a job? No. Am I the kind of guy who doesn't want you to have a job where you make more than me? No. I'm that kind of guy who would rather you have the choice to have a job. If you want one, great! If you don't, great, I can take care of you. That being said, I'm not looking for a model. I'm looking for someone who is beautiful in my eyes. Furthermore, I want to feel as though I'm holding you, not you holding me, if you know what I mean. I'm also looking for a girl who can be adorable and sexy; a girl who can be serious and playful. Additionally, I'm a geek. I'm a gamer. I would love to find a girl who is also a gamer but I will settle for a girl who will at least just accept that I'm a gamer.
If you have read to this point and haven't had one of those deal breaking "kthxbye" moments, then please, message me or reach out to me to message you if you're shy. I do love shy girls.