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42 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Ukrainian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Epitomam facio ergo sum? Not likely. Still, I'll make a list and check it twice; or at least I would but for the fact that I'm so easily di-- oooh, shiny!

I'm a well-traveled, well-read professional actor and musician who values honesty, integrity & sharp wit. I'm loyal, chivalric, creative, articulate and funny as well as being affectionate, dramatic and terminally goofy in a "please adjust his meds" kinda way. I'm a good dancer, a great cook, and I love film, picnics, art galleries and a good book. I'm into classical,jazz,funk, soul, goth, alt.rock, drum&bass, electronica and industrial as well as cafes, forests, theatres, lush hotel bars, gritty rock rooms & glitzy galas. Secretly, however, a home body. Shall I explain? No time, let me sum up: I'm a skeptic, a vegetarian, a Zen Buddhist, a science junkie, romantic troubadour, sufi soul, and I really hate green beans.

In Other Words: Bibliophile Musician seeks Existentialist Muse for scintillating conversation, wanton passion, adventurous cuisine and merciless hilarity.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Auditions. Haunting the Library, Chapters and Starbucks. Writing. Wondering why I can't stop writing songs even though all my bands are toast. Hoping HBO will pick up the show so we can shoot! Having finally admitted that 15 years as a professional performing artist does the opposite of pay the bills, have taken a job (after looking for ages for one that won't crush my spirit or make me ashamed to look people in the eye) wherein I go to college and university classes and take notes for deaf, hard-of-hearing and learning disabled students. Paying bills feels good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing and writing music. Acting. Cooking. Provoking. Making people laugh in inappropriate situations. Making a Toyota Echo behave like a Maserati. Getting rejection letters from publishers. Learning new languages. Finding the good art galleries. Kissing. Penning angry but perfectly courteous letters to certain heads of state. Deadpan stares and eyebrow arching. Keeping secrets. Poetry. Media & argument analysis. Hugging. Ballroom dancing. Dreaming. Eyeliner management. Spanking administration. Fencing. Going a bit too far over the line. Gesticulating. Trivial Pursuit. Sleeping in. Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A)Far, far too many to list here. I read like some people smoke. I lost my library card once and I still get nightmares. OK, a short list: Shakespeare, Rumi, Hesse, Marquez, Pirandello, Beckett, Eco, Mallarme, W.S.Burroughs, Rushdi, Wilde, Camus, Kafka, Rimbaud, very good historical fiction, haiku, hard sci-fi and mountains of non-fiction about science, architecture, art, history, psychology, cognitive science, philosophy, politics, activism and linguistics. Don't tell anyone, but when I think no one is looking, I sniff books. I sniff them. I think something might be very wrong with me in the whole brainal area. Ain't no methadone for this, muddarchoad.

B)Ran, Pi, The Matrix (one), LOTR, NxNW, Wings of Desire, La Femme Nikita, Dark City, Kagemusha, Serenity, Requiem for a Dream, Aguirre, Happiness, La reine Margot, Leon, Killing Zoe, Hero, Tous les matins du monde, Cyrano de Bergerac, The Big Lebowski, Casablanca, Seven Samurai, Spider, Blade Runner, Nosferatu, Withnail and I, Elizabeth, Memento, V for Vendetta, Dr. Strangelove, Libertine, Heaven, Midnight Clear, Secretary, Lost in Translation, 13th Warrior, Big Trouble in Little China, High Fidelity, Grosse Point Blank, Last Night, The Imposters, The Hunger, Ronin, Delicatessen, The Usual Suspects, The Breakfast Club, Shaun of the Dead, Little Voice, Stranger Than Fiction, Day for Night, No Country for Old Men, Interview, Primer, That Thing You Do, The Three Musketeers, The Fountain, Let The Right One In, I (heart) Huckabees, Synecdoche, Glengarry GlenRoss, Death &the Maiden, (the list goes on) and remember: shop smart, shop S-mart.

C1)Bjork, Tricky, RATM, Tea Party, Disturbed, Prodigy, Goldie, NIN, David Bowie, Portisehead, Beasties, The Cure, The Smiths, Jane's Addiction, Massive Attack, Bauhaus, Rush, The B52s, Fiona Apple, Meat Beat Manifesto, Violent Femmes, Clash, Joy Division, Pogues, Nick Cave &The Bad Seeds, Saint Germaine, Black Flag, Tom Waits, Esthero, Dead Can Dance, Bif Naked, New Order, FLA, The Doors, Dropkick Murphys, Erykah Badu, Evanescence, GreatBigSea, Sean Paul, Police, Interpol, Delerium, Mystikal, M. Franti, S.O'Connor C2)Bach, Ockeghem, Varese, Rachmaninov, Vivaldi, Liszt, Gluck, Stravinski, Shonberg, Puccini, Penderecki, Lutoslavski, Purcell, Lully, Buxtehude, Josquin des Prez, Dufay, Debussy, Messiaen C3)Bird, Miles Davis, Thelonious Monk , Stan Getz, Dizzy, Ella, Bill Evans, Max Roach, Charles Mingus, Carlos Jobim, Holly Cole, Harry Connick, Dean Martin, Louis Prima, Rosemary Clooney, Jaymz Bee and the Royal Jelly Orchestra, Sly and the Family Stone, Aretha Franklin, Earth Wind and Fire, Lounge Against the Machine, C4)Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Tricky Sakhran, Karsh Kali, ChebiSabah

D1)Indian, Sushi, DimSum, Lebanese, patisserie, fiendishly stinky cheese, dark chocolate, hors d'oeuvres, gravlax, mushrooms, baguette & croissants, oysters mignonette, tapas, & lazy brunch. D2)Veuve, Latour, Dows, Pernod, Lagavulin, Armagnac, Guinness Corona, Rochfort, Campari soda, Bombay martini, Dirty Manhattan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Musical instruments; Lots of pencils and paper; My shades; Library card; My smartphone port-a-brain; A good corkscrew; Curry; A functioning legislature with a logical and fully representative electoral system that... uh, oh great, now where did it go?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Existential emptiness. Serotonin re-uptake. Geopolitics. How pastry could possibly be so bad for you. Where the hell are all my guitar picks? How might I sneak off and have a read for most of the day without anyone noticing. Why are conservatives so effing stupid? My dream home. Cosmology & theoretical physics. Very expensive chords. Cake or death? Samsara: how to cope.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either: 1.Rocking out with my band (or someone else's).
2.On stage acting in a piece of theatre or going to the cinema.
3.At a gallery, by myself, high on brush strokes and overflow.
4.Sharing some good wine and conversation with dear friends.
5.Curled up into a small ball and staring feverishly into the middle distance while rocking back and forth ever so slightly, muttering, barely under my breath, something about pickles.
6.Drafting policy in case of world philosopher-kingship nomination.
7.Getting a grip.

and now...Truth In Advertising: honestly, these days, more often than not I'm by myself, reading for hours: just how I like it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not wearing any pants.
You should message me if
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Any of the following applies:
You have an opinion about something and can express it well. You are creative in some way. You are reasonably well read. You are quite spunky and can hold your own. You think murder is justified in the case of egregious misuse of pronouns or other Flagrant Grammatical Atrocities. Your eyes are free of motes. You propose starting a secret society. You think science is really very cool, words are intoxicating, & the arts are reason enough to be alive.

By the way, if you are religious, wish to give me advice about my chakras, think I would benefit from wearing a super-holistic chiropractically-aligned homeopathically-chelating magnetic bracelet, offer to e-meter my thetan, or would like to expound on how typical a Libra I am given I was born on the cusp of blah-dee-blah with a rising squibble-dee-doo, trust me, we will not get along.

One last thing (and I know, this profile is stupidly, even egomaniacally too long). In the interests of full disclosure and as a self-selection aid so you don't waste your time, for the record, I am penniless, sarcastic, overweight, and---hello?...hello??