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23 Montreal, Quebec, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 17
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
English, Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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i'm bad at making bad jokes and very forgetful. I try not to serve dinner with an apology.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just moved here in August, in an open relationship, looking for friends, lovers, and interesting things to do. cooking brunch for money.

working on applying to graduate school, house music, google searching, forgetting about painting.

trying to be better, critical, helpful, fun, and gentle.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
ebay shopping, planning dinner, and talking.

not really good, but pretty good at fixing bikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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it used to be my bifocals, but I saw a new optometrist after I lost my glasses and he said I didn't need them, made me feel shame, or at least a little misplaced.

now it might be my eyelashes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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my favorite TV show is Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, but after that I can just list Louie, Daria, The X-Files, Battlestar Galactica, and The Next Generation+Voyager.

It seems hard to remember, but the books that come back to me are Sent For You Yesterday by John Edgar Wideman, Trout Fishing in America by Richard Brautigan, Go Tell It on the Mountain by James Baldwin, Neuromancer by William Gibson, Ceremony by Leslie Marmon Silko. I also like some of that bourgeois intrigue, like Flaubert or Tolstoy.

also poems by John Ashbery.
Octavia Butler.

I get very excited by theory, mostly thinking about literature, religion, queer-ness, affect...right now I'm reading Heidegger, Eve Sedgwick, and Jean-Luc Nancy.

🎶Roxy Music, Stevie Nicks, John Fahey, Neil Young, Kate Bush, Arthur Russell, Karen Dalton, Lucinda Williams, Lou Reed, The Band, Meat Puppets, Yo La Tengo, Nina Simone, Cocteau Twins, Lil' Kim, Change, Melba Moore, Patrice Rushen, The Emotions, Mr. Fingers, Kerri Chandler... Can't forget Sade.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dancing, books, movies, rain, trout to eat, can't decided between google and ebay.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
having time and living in a place where I can go backpacking.
trying to make a home.
having sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"shotgunning beers in the shower" was what I wrote before, that might not be funny.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have one small tattoo of a rose